Say how you feel or leave it?

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me around a month ago now. I still really care about him and i want to let him know. I am just scared that this might make things too awkward between us. There was no particular reason for our break up, he just said that it was him in general and he couldn't have a girlfriend with what was going on at the minute. All i know is that i still have genuine feelings for him and i'll never know whether he would get back together unless i ask. It might end up being awkward but then again we might get back the relationship we used to have. Friends of mine that have asked me out before and i have said no to, i have not acted awkward with them so maybe he wouldn't be funny with me.
Should i take the risk and tell him? As far as i know he is not seeing anyone else, its just i truely care for him and would love to have him back more than anything.

Answer 1

Tell him, but only when you accept the fact that it could go either way. Don't get your hopes up too much. You'll just be setting yourself up for a fall. This way if he feels the same, great, but if he doesn't then you're okay with that too. At least you were honest with your feelings and gave it one last shot.

Answer 2

Hmm a little tough, If he had no reason to break up with you then there is no way to find out how to fix it I guess. Maybe if you tell him how you feel and see how he reacts. Did he seem like he really cared about you too? Did you see a decline in his feelings for you towards the end? Small things can also affect it. Maybe school was too demanding...family...friends? even another girl. But the best thing is, if he is going to ignore you or be a jerk afterwards then forget him. It really isn't worth it! I had a bf that I broke up with simply because our relationship was dying anyways but he is a total jerk now. Yes I really loved him, yes he loved me, but for some reason it just didn't work out. You have to understand that some things just aren't meant in life. There are more guys out there for you, it is just a matter of time. Focus on more important things like school and family. Yes it sounds like boring and everything but just keep your friends close and one day a guy will pop up for you!
hope this helps! <3

Answer 3

Hear this: Things are never ever as they once were when you try and go backwards...life proceeds and progresses, you shouldnt go back into this expecting for things to be the same, nothing stays the same, the only things staying the same are dead. I would say go back with him if you truly love him, but dont go in there with the expectations that things are going to be "like they were". You'll be disappointed, he'll be disappointed, and it wont work. Good luck, and dont settle.

Answer 4

Honesty is always the best policy. It's not a bad thing to let him know how you feel, it shows him your feelings. He might be over the thing that broke you up but you'll never know unless you tell him.

Good luck and be happy.

Answer 5

If you don't say something it could haunt you later. What is the worst that could happen? He says no, but at least you know where you stand and you can move on...

Answer 6

i wrote a letter to my girlfriend and sent it in the mail. she said it was perfect. dont be pushy in it. just say what you want to say and leave it at that. theres nothing wrong with communicating your thoughts.

Answer 7

Tell him. You'll regret it if you don't. It doesn't sound like your expectations are too high, so I don't think you can be too disappointed if it went wrong.

Answer 8

just tell him

Answer 9

defenitely ask him. what do u have to lose?

Answer 10

let him go