we already know that we like each other. i told him that i've like him for a while and he told me that he liked me. i thaught that he was a player but once he gets a girlfriend he is really sweet to them. we flirt a lot but he seems to be kinda shy about taking the next step. should i continue to be friends with him or what?
2007-01-13 07:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by ashes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your instincts. Does he really treat his girlfriends well or does he just say that he does? Whether he's a good friend or not, most people won't admit to treating their past girlfriends/boyfriends like crap.
If you really think that he's a player, get over your feelings because you being a good friend won't guarantee good treatment.
2007-01-13 07:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he be a player and be shy at the same time? If he is really interested I think you would know it and wouldn't be asking strangers weather he really likes you or not. I would say keep your options open and date as many guys as you can. Don't go goo-goo over just one. You are not married so don't act like it. Guys are really simple, so if he is not making a move and knows how you feel I would say he's not really interested and is just being nice to you. Try being a little more unavailable, and maybe he'll come around. If not who cares a cuter one is right around the corner. Have fun being young and single, its a great time of life.
2007-01-13 08:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue, but try to back off emotionally, i mean don't get too much emotionally involved with him so if he's really a player then u can leave with least pain. and about him being shy make hints for him, be romantic, confident and take him to the next step;) good luck:)
2007-01-13 08:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by anabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much do u value ur friendship could you cope not been,sometimes there is a spark of attraction between friends and u want something to happen but if you go for it and its not right what happens then do u ever think u will b as close to eachother again u could ruin a good thing thing if u cross that line think b4 u act expecially if u have ad a drink good luck
2007-01-13 08:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by shazdoug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from players! Not worth it
2007-01-13 08:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer inevitably. people style friendships with people in accordance with undemanding pastimes, notwithstanding it would not advise they must be precisely alike. I truly have pals that are criminals, gamers or maybe gay and that i'm neither of those issues.
2016-10-31 00:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a player. Play him
2007-01-13 07:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go for it. Give him a chance.
If he is a player, you will find out soon enough!
2007-01-13 07:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by CassieKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf were like that but some1 got so tired of us being friends so they made ny bf ask me out
2007-01-13 07:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move!!! if he likes you go for it!!
2007-01-13 07:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋