Kayy i know i had this question out be4 but i messed up on it so here it is again. Kay i have a boyfriend and my EX has a gurlfriend but I keep having dreams that we get back toghter and im pretty sure I dont have feelings for him anymore cuz i know i love my boyfriend. but the dreams wont stop and i feel glity cuz i love my boyfriend and i keep having dreams about another guy who i used to date. could my dreams be telling my something?
2007-01-13 07:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like subconsciously you still want to be with your ex or maybe wonder what it would be like if you all got back together. You may just not really think that's how you feel when you're awake, but deep down, you still have feelings for him.
The more you focus on your current boyfriend, the easier it will be to forget about your ex.
2007-01-13 07:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream about your ex-boyfriend suggests that something or someone in your current life is bringing out similar feelings to the ones you felt in the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learned from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do not repeat the same mistake also, If you dream of reuniting (getting back together) with an ex, it suggests that you have been repeating old patterns of behavior in your life that are not healthy.
2007-01-13 23:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by meju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was years ago, but I had something very similar. Just as I was getting close to a new girl friend, I started having very vivid and very disturbing dreams about my old girl friend (often sexual or emotional, so vivid that I remember 2 of them today 22 years later).
I confided in a mutual friend (she was the one that introduced us). She said that my new girl friend was having similar dreams about her ex. My guess -- the feelings you are having for your new boyfriend are CAUSING your dreams. You are feeling things you haven't felt in a while and it is causing sub-conscious to associate the feelings with your ex. For me, this happened for a couple of weeks, then my subconscous associated the feelings with my new girl friend. And BTW -- my relationship with her was one of the best of my life.
Stay with the new guy and ENJOY him. Don't even think of going back to the ex. You're going to have a great time!!!
2007-01-13 15:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jeffrey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋