Now i met my Boyfriend in a Physc Ward.. not the greatest place to meet guys. but i love him wqith every peace of my heart and he says he loves me too. but im scared that he's just saying that. cuz my Ex said the same thing. that he loved me and would never break up with me. but he ended up ending it. and that just ripped me apart. and i have had this to me many times. and they all say their different then the other guys. but they all end up being the same and breaking up with me. and Im scared that Travis is gonna be the same. or he's just saying what i wanna here. are all guys asses or should i trust him? cuz he's a real nice guy and he says all the right things i wanna belive him but then again all of them seem nice at first.
2007-01-13 07:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a great guy in my life who always has the perfect answer to everything. I trust him with all my heart and soul. I know that it's difficult trusting guys once a few break your heart, but it's just one of those things you have to do in order to move forward in the relationship. In my opinion, one person can change your entire world. Maybe Travis is that one guy who will never hurt you, you won't know unless you give him a chance. Good luck.
2007-01-13 07:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you have some trust issues and if you have those than something wrong with the relationship. You should be able to believe him when he tells you something. But to answer your question, ask yourself what is love? Do you have that with him? If so than you will know if you really love him instead of just sayin it.
2007-01-13 07:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w. t. f. ??? why dont you believe him?!?! i know sometimes i have trouble believing people when they like me & complement me - but this sounds more important. sooo many people say that love is about what you do, not what you say [but that just makes me stress out about never finding someone awesome, then i get in a down mood. im emotional inside]. so does he express his love for you?? do you do the same?
i dont know if you have trust issues, or if youre the kid everyone smiles at and says hi what sup to; but you can teach yourself to believe travis & just stop doubting someone you love - it just sounds wrong [no offense].
yea - i get it, i really do - youre scared things wont work out, but give it a go. & if you get hurt?? thats life. we have emotions. dont hide from them. theyre just gona find you and squeeze youre heart.
2007-01-13 07:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different but if you really like him and he seems to be honest with you then just go with your feelings and use good judgement. You can never stop a guy from leaving you if that is what he wants to do. Most of the time it isn't about you when the guy leaves, it is about him!
2007-01-13 07:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that i just wrote to you. and your ex best friend.
anyways, you sound like me. you sound really sensitive and there is soemthing missing in your life and a boyfriend or friend fills that void for you.
do u have both your parents? are they there for you?
you should talk to a counselor, they help. and talk to your doc about antidepressants.
i once dated this guy who kind of, not entirely sounds like ur guy but i grew up, and sorted things out and bettered myself. maybe you deserve soemone better than soemone who is ina psych ward. i mean better yourself and raise your standards.
u cant be so dependednt on someone to be there for you and make you happy all the time. you need to find it within yourself.
i need to take my own advice bc i will rely on my bf too much at times.
good luck hun!
2007-01-13 07:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had given other guys the chance and your trust why not this new guy ? Try 2 trust him and see where it goes.... but dont get so emotionally vulnarable tht you end up gettin hurted terribly if he lets you down.... Hope i helped a bit.
2007-01-13 07:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Noel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust him, or else whats the point? Listen my boyfriend had every girl he dated cheat on him. Except for me. Cause i dont cheat. But he never was suspicious or untrustful of me. Because despite it all hes a very secure person. You just need to be secure with yourself, or else you can never have a good relationship
2007-01-13 07:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you need to see someone because it sounds like you have some trust issues but good luck
2007-01-13 07:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont compare him to your old bfs, but it takes a long time to find that special one, so maybe your exs were right to break up w/ you
2007-01-13 07:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should get to know the person well before being a boyfriend
2007-01-13 07:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by xayahuascax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋