if you are really liking a guy at a bar and he is confident and cool, you give him your number with a smile, but then when he calls and leaves a message on your machine and sounds more serious and self-conscious, would you call him back or would being nervous on the phone be a turn-off (despite being Mr. cool when you first met him)? I do this a lot.. let me know!
2007-01-13 07:12:11 · 11 answers · asked by rope-a-dope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First impressions are the most important. I don't care if he just says "Yo, this is so and so give me a call back aight!" If he won me at the meeting enough for me to give him my number I'll call him back for a date. If he's really nervous on the phone call and mr cool in the meeting, that's endearing for me. Makes me think he really likes me and doesn't want to blow it.
2007-01-13 07:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, surely when he was at the bar he had had a few inhibition-relaxing drinks, so he would come across as confident and cool.
Be flattered that he thinks you are out of his league and gets tongue-tied when leaving you a message.
Attraction is something you will feel (or not) when/if you meet up again.
Good luck with it!
2007-01-13 15:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by wheniamgrownup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more confident, I think it's rude to give a guy your number and when he calls you don't call him back. The atmosphere changes see.
2007-01-13 15:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE SOUNDS NERVOUS ON THE PHONE THEN I WOULD KNOW THAT HE IS AFRAID OF BEING REJECTED AND NOT AN ALL CONFIDENT A**. I WOULD DEFINATELY WANT TO CALL HIM BACK
2007-01-13 15:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by MARY M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody feels nervous and intimidated during that first call, its very natual. Have fun and talk with the guy and things will be fine. Have fun
2007-01-13 15:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by girlybluesray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i liked him at the bar an had alot in common yes id call back
2007-01-13 15:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by mylilsun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i would call him back maybe he just doesnt like talking to voicemail. dont judge him on that. i know i hate leaving messages
2007-01-13 15:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back. Give him a chance.
2007-01-13 15:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you dont want to start off real strong but don't hide either. I think that its great that you actually call them .
2007-01-13 15:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for his another action.
2007-01-13 15:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Summer Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋