2007-01-13 07:11:45 · 16 answers · asked by lonely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He abused you and your response is "I forgive you".
Where is the consequence?
Where is the penalty for the violation of your trust?
If you forgive him with NO CONSEQUENCE, you can rest assured that you will be abused again (in the worst way).
2007-01-13 07:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about him. I wouldn't 'just' forgive him, because if there are no repricussions to his actions he's liable to just do it again. I don't think that guys (and girls) are 'once a cheater always a cheater', but cheating is really disrespectful to a relationship, and you need to personally decide if it's something you are willing to forgive him for.
If there were extrenuating circumstances... ehrm, alcohol... then it throws a new light on your situation. You need to decide if you are willing to forgive, if he is truly sorry, and weigh that all with why he was cheating on you in the first place. Is it a character flaw? Was it a moment of weakness? If he just 'not that into you'?
2007-01-13 07:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by nardis14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to forgive him if you don't give a s***.
If you are having thoughts about forgiving him, then it will just give him the opportunity to do it again, cause he knows you'll forgive again. HE HE!!
And if you don't forgive, it won't matter anyway because he already has someone else on the side.
2007-01-13 07:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea of course forgive the guy. The way society is screwed up these days u might as well take him back and give him the green light to cheat again.Who needs morals. I say let them eat cake
2007-01-13 07:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never ok for a guy to sleep with another girl when hes in a relationship. so my answer is no you shouldnt forgive him
2007-01-13 07:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by book_worm8888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so both... your b/f were given less than the impact of alcohol, fell asleep and then woke as a lot as come upon some lady next to him (the position did she come from ?) OR your b/f were given less than the impact of alcohol, replaced into seen with a lady and "would" have finished something he shouldn't from kissing in effortless words, to extra (yet pondering he replaced into less than the impact of alcohol..) and concerns that 'she' replaced into extra interested in him and needs to make hardship. women will be women and create hardship 'besides' in the journey that they imagine they get their guy. Boys will do stupid issues (as will the elementary lady !) likely, he 'did' in simple terms doze off yet many human beings said him on the mattress with the lady - regardless of if not something actual got here about. yet he does not sound like he needs to go away you. He needs to stay and is making an attempt to be truthful so that you recognize what got here about earlier 'rumours' arrive. you want to imagine in different words regardless of the reality that - infidelity isn't the problem or him eager to go away. you've a baby coming, It needs help, you want help and income Will this guy do this for you ? And is he nicely worth staying with, and could he stay extra sober in a social gathering He actually appears like he should be round. Sharing a mattress does not recommend something got here about. If he shared it with a guy - what you be questioning now ? end demanding about what's unlikely to have got here about. and problem about your new destiny - not a month away. impossible something got here about, and really not something meaning he needs to go away (in reality precisely the alternative - he's frightened you'll want him to)
2016-11-23 16:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him sweetie...
and expect him to forgive you when u sleep with another guy ;)
2007-01-13 07:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Deema 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he slept with another girl, of course not. thats cheating
2007-01-13 07:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you, but can you trust him not to repeat the same thing again?
2007-01-13 07:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he love you .Then he wont sleep with another girl. if i were you. i would break up with him.
2007-01-13 07:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋