Help Me.. plz im gettig bullied in School by "my ex best friend" and i dont know what to do, no matter what i do she doesnt leave me alone. im 13 and i wanna commit suicide i slit my wrists and tryed hanging my self. i need help i dont know what to do.
2007-01-13 06:55:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find an adult to talk with. be better than the bully
2007-01-13 06:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by luvmycrafties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better than to get bullied. ive talked alotta people out of commiting suicide. its the last thing you want to do. you need to create more friends that you can be with and that will stick up for you if she tries to put you down. throw a little back at her if it'll make you feel anybetter. but the first thing you gotta do is slowly cut out the suicide. if your ever angry/sad and want to slit your writs, join a team or something at your school. if im angry the last thing i wanna do is be by what MADE me mad in the first place. I also advise you to see your school counsler. he/she can help you out ALOT. Good luck and stay positive!
2007-01-13 15:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I'm sure you don't want to, you must tell your parents and ask them for immediate pyschological help. Have your parents involve the school principal as well. Bullying is a sign of low confidence and is an action that should not be tolerated. Although I have not had this problem myself, I do know how painful and hurtful it can be. You do need to take immediate steps to have this stopped and if action is not taken you may want to consider changing schools. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-13 15:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be bullies in your life as long as u live, stand up to the bully, ask them to step outside, and when they take a swing at u swing back. martial arts class, and a self assertiveness class might help. there was a bully i knew once, stand up to them, don't act as if u are afraid of them, they will torture u twice as hard if they see your afraid. bullies are usually cowards. have u spoken to your mom about this? let the bully have it right in the mouth, and they will not bother u anymore once u show them u aren't going to allow them to pick on u anymore.why end your life, or slit your wrist, just because u don't know how to handle a bully.once i knocked my torturer down, he stopped hurting me, when he saw i was just not going to take it anymore. bullies are people who are really afrid but bully others to boost their own low self worth. they feel important when they are picking on someone they think is weaker, got to show them your not weaker. sometimes u just have to ignore a bully if they are just slinging insults at u, chances are the bully is jelous of u. good luck, and stand up for your rights, if they hit u first, u go after them with a vengance, and let them have it, and chances are they will leave u alone and find another victim.
2007-01-13 15:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness she sounds a right *****. I have been bullied before and know how much it can get you down. She sounds very selfish telll your mum or someone how you feel, i have been bullied by a man. Get angry if she knows she cannot push you around she will back off bullies are cowards. Get support and be more assertive. Get your mum to have a word with her mum. or your dad they care about you. sorry your having a round time some people are downright horrible she sounds a right sad *****.
2007-01-13 15:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell an adult : Teacher, parent,
Principal.
2. See a doctor and ask about medication to treat depression.
3. Get counseling.
2007-01-13 15:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by ilovemychemicalromance_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nonononono! dont!
omg i have been where you have been. and it isnt worth it. MOVE and get out of there as fast as you can. ther eis so much to live for. your only thirteen! seriously you should get help, and call someone but i can understand if you wouldnt want to bc they may take you away and you want your freedom or whatever.
you need to move. you can only live ONCe and you need to make yourself happy and make everything in life worthwhile. Tell your parents and if they dotn care then you should definitly go to the principle and get a restraining order or seomthign too. if it is THAT bad, you can have THEM kicked out of school.
Contact me, seriously...20/f/we can talk.
leeya8615 aim or email
2007-01-13 15:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please email me. it seems as if you need someone to talk to
jessrich1000@yahoo.com
There is this site that gives information for students who are getting bullied. Here are a few of them,
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/health/childrenyouth/focus/bullies/index.html
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/parenting_tips/bullies.html
mainly ignore them, they live on your fear. Ask them if there is anything else that they have better than to bully them. Find a group of friends to hang out with
2007-01-13 15:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by jessrich1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to your parents about this suicide is final. There is no going back, and there are so many people that would miss you terribly. There are resources for teens that feel suicidal. I'm sure there is a hotline available for you to dicuss your problems. Home schooling is another option. Please talk to someone as soon as possible.
2007-01-13 15:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard, but you shouldn't let what those people say effect you. just surround yourself by people who care for you. i know it's hard, i've been in your situation, but don't kill yourself because that's not gonna solve anything. Imagine how hard that would be on your family. everyone gets bullied, but it's not worth it. my friend was thinking about it majorly seriously 2 weeks ago, but she didn't, she stopped and thought about it. do the same thing. would it really solve your problems?
2007-01-13 15:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋