this guy, yep you guessed it i like him dnt know whether he likes me, we are friends and i love it, but i love him more than a friend, i want to start flirting with him, but not say something that would ruin the chance of staying as good as friends i know tis a risk any ideas?x
2007-01-13 06:44:57 · 7 answers · asked by frankie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you introduce flirting into a friendship... there's really not many problems that come up. If you two are really good friends, even if one of you made a pass at the other and the feeling wasn't mutual you'd just laugh about it later and nothing bad would happen. The only problem you might face is the feeling of rejection. It might be hard for you to hear the word no and might get depressed about it but the guy isn't going to feel weird or bad. I've had alot of my female friends try to get me into bed or to start dating and I just simply explained to them that I wasn't interest or was interested in somoene else and most of them accepted it without getting mad. I've only had 1 girl break down and start crying and that did cause problems because even though I love her to death as a friend, I am hesitant about hanging out now because it just feels weird. I'd suggest just start being REALLY friendly to him for awhile, give him hugs when you enter or leave his company, start fitting sexual innuendo into casual conversation, sitting close to him wherever you go, lots of little stuff. You might want to do that and try to read his reaction... if you can't read it you could always go for broke and just be like HEY, I like you, we should go on a DATE sometime. Just get yourself ready for the possibility that he might say no and don't bug him about it if he does. Respect his decision and don't get emotional about it and you won't ruin the friendship.
2007-01-13 06:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go for a suttle look a tad bit of lipgloss then he will look at your mouth which can lead to temptation. You can link arms with him and gently stroke his arm. Look into his eyes when u talk 2 him nd last but not least have a normal conversation with him nd add a lil more humour guys like fun girls Gd luck xxx
2007-01-13 06:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes there is a difference btween flirting with in tention and flirting. As long as u have it clear in ur mind that it isn't with intention then it will come across in ur body language etc.
2007-01-13 07:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't flirt! I would never advise going out with friends, but if you really like him then tell him straight because you shouldn't have to play him.
2007-01-13 08:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lil L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show a bit of leg and cleavage.
2007-01-15 02:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a *******
2007-01-13 07:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple....................... dont
2007-01-13 07:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋