She moved out to be with me
My best friend lives around the corner from me
2007-01-13 06:34:00 · 28 answers · asked by travolta87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I know who this is, and it won't give you any solace to know that I long-stroked your gf about 3 years ago and she stalked me for almost 5 months.
2007-01-13 06:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that there was no breach of trust should make this situation not really matter.
If you want to know of an occurance where there would be good reason to blow steam...here's one for you(mabey it will help to put things in better perspective):
A guy who was very close to marrying discovered that his bride to be was getting it on with his best friend who was to be his best man. He hired a detective who got a photo of them going at it.
The day of the wedding, which by the way was an exorbitant
amount of money that the bride's to be parents coughed up was attended by several hundred people.
While at the reception just before his best friend was to give the toast, the groom got up and went up to the microphone.
He said" I would like to have all of you take the picture that is taped to under your seats ,and take a good long look at it -that's a picture of my soon to be annulled wife and my best man going at it last week!"
The groom then turned to his visibly upset extobewife and very loudly said F*** Y**!! and repeated the deliverance to his old best man/friend.
Followed by thanking everyone for coming and announcing "I'M OUTTA HERE !!!"
Oh and being that the reception was underway guess who paid for the whole shabang!?!!!!
2007-01-13 07:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sailon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have trust issues so you might want to call this off.
You are thinking that since they screwed once -- they can screw again since Mr. Man is around the corner from you.
If you don't trust your gf and fidelity is important to you, then call it off if you can't be convinced that your gf won't creep.
Infidelity only needs desire and opportunity to become a reality.
You have to find out what are the desires of your girlfriend's heart.
By the way, I was going to mention the 10 year statute of limitations rule for previous sex partners, but this rule does not apply as the sex partner in question lives so close to you and could conceivably become "rebound" guy.
2007-01-13 06:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how you'd be disturbed by this..but it happend 11yrs ago , not last week or last year. You all have grown up quite a bit in 11yrs. You two have been together for 7months now and as you said she moved out to be with YOU* Not your best friend...and doesn't matter if he lives aroudn the corner or right next door to you..You're still best friends and don't let this get in the way of your relationship with your g/friend or your best friend*~ She's with YOU and that's all that should matter*~ Don't even think about what happend 11yrs ago* Lifes too short*~
2007-01-13 06:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that was then, I'm sure you haven't been celibate for 11 years and we don't own anybody. You have to have trust for each other, a lot of things changes in 11 years. Be a man, I mean a John Wayne kinda man.
2007-01-13 06:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and your Gfriend? How long were they together for? I know it hurts, and what makes it worse is the images in your head. If she slept with him on a one night stand, then ask yourself: Is this the type of woman I want? If they were in a long relationship and you know that there is nothing between them anymore then come to terms with it and move on. It might affect your relationship with your friend as you would try and avoid spending time with him while you girlfriend is there, so if you are willing to loose him as a friend for a woman you really love, then go for it.
2007-01-13 06:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My suggestion would be to evaluate why it bothers you. Is it because you consider any girl your friend was/is with off limits? Is it a jealousy issue? You also have to think of where you were with your girl before you had this knowledge, where you wanted to be (marriage, or just steady, etc), and why the information that she had sex with your friend changes any plans you had with her. If you haven't already, talk with her about it.
2007-01-13 06:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Hobbitling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her. If she slept with your best friend. And He lives around the corner from you, she might do it again.
2007-01-13 06:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sarbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was 11 years ago. That is in the past. You are her boyfriend now, not the guy she selpt withthat long ago. She is choosing to be with you. It isn't that big of a deal. It would be too long ago for me to care.
2007-01-13 06:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been around the block, huh? I had a similar situation and the girlfriend cheated on me with him, so my answer would probably be biased.
I guess I would have to say that if she is a cheater, then she probably will sleep with him again, and if she's not a cheater, then she won't. If she is a cheater, it's going to be with someone anyways(even if it's not with him).
2007-01-13 06:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋