I seem to be surrounded by blockheads and wh*res in terms of my inner circle of friends and girls. Although it hasn't been that venomous towards me, it still seems to leave me on the outskirts of inclusion in terms of genuine socialization and all around fair treatment because I personally choose integrity and honesty over spontaneously wreckless immaturity and manipulation. Furthermore, I'm tired of being looked at as an @sshole for it. Being surrounded by the same circle seems to impact my love life as well. I'm looking for something healthy and stable and every girl I meet seems to be the exact opposite. They screw the first guy they see (including me sometimes) and questionably don't want more. They don't make the fact of the matter clear at least; just string people along. I'm tired and looking to break out of this sh!t pattern. Is there anyway where I can meet women with a good STABLE head on their shoulders other than clubs and online b.s.? The matter extends to friendships, too
2007-01-13 06:19:22 · 12 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you fish in the same pond you will keep dragging up the same small groups of fish.......
find a bigger better pond
or maybe even the ocean
2007-01-13 06:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by spoiled wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join a professional organization such as National Society of Black Engineers or something.
You might want to join Habitat for Humanity or United Way and do some projects.
You will find volunteers who tend to be a bit more altruistic and less selfish.
I find that today's black woman is very confused when she meets a black man with intellect, character, and values.
It is a rare combination in today's self-serving world.
2007-01-13 14:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby. Go to the gym. Get out more, and use normal English instead of "genuine socialization." And stop your whining already, please!!! You already know what to do, so do it!! You've already answered your question by saying what you don't like, so focus on what you do like. By the way, if you want to meet women with brains, personality, and beauty, think about going to school
Hope this helps, if you can "comprehend the sophisticated linguistics skills that I have utilized."
2007-01-13 14:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by thundergnome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need to have an ADULT site with NO KIDS.Good luck there doesn`t seem to be many older(30-40) folks. Especially a lack of older honest women.
2007-01-13 14:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that's a toughie...it seems like all the good girls like to stay indoors..trust me..I don't get out much and when I do, I go to clubs and bars and see nothing but drunk partying girls looking for a "good time" maybe you should get involved with your community, like maybe if you're into poetry or something like that, go to a local poetry slam or go see a local band with some of your guy friends...
2007-01-13 14:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Know there are single teachers that are very mature ask one of them out.It helped my brother!
2007-01-13 14:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by JJcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother ...
I think we are going to clone one,because,the way things are going most ladies are in the same predicament...
IF they are not stupid ! they are turning Dike !!!and I hope I don't get in trouble for this one ?//!!!!
2007-01-13 14:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Edwin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with new people. meet new people.
go somewhere where more sophisticated people go...hangout there...and you would surely meet some more mature chicks. ;]
2007-01-13 14:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join this site below if ur looking
2007-01-13 14:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move one to a different circle of friends, we are who we hang around with...........
2007-01-13 14:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋