Did I mess up or I'm still good with her?

Question

I went on a date last night. It was great. During the date, we fooled around a lot. After that, we got a daiquiri, which made us more horny. so, we got in the backseat and mess around even harder. While we were into it heavily, we said she getting sleepy and were ready to go home. When we got to her house, we kissed and she took my drink, which i didn't mind, but a lil taken. My question is eventhough we got drunk, do u think she will remember the good times we had before we had the drinks? do u think I messed up when she decided she was ready to go home? Or, i'm still good with her. What should i do now? Help me on this one

Answer 1

THE BEST WAY 2 FIND OUT IS 2 CALL OR GO 2 HER CRIB .SO DAT U NO WHERE U BOTH STAND.SHE MAY BE BE THINKING OF THE SAME THING.

Answer 2

Whatever you do -- you must continue to play it cool.

You did the right thing by taking her home when she asked. You don't want to do anything that would even give the appearance that the "sex" was not consensual.

She will let you know when she is ready to drop the undies.

If you become too forceful, you will smack of desperation and she will move on.

She liked you enough to flirt with you -- take her out on two more dates and she should give up the goods by then. Continue to flirt with her on these two dates and notice her responses!

If she wants you to wait longer, you have to decide if she is really worth the wait. If she is, WAIT. If not, focus your attention on a woman who will put out by the 3rd date.

Answer 3

this is a tough call.
theres two possibilites.

one- she had a great time and she knew she was drunk so she didnt want to do something stupid or something she wasnt ready for.

two- she thinks that you're going too fast and she isnt ready for this yet. she may not call you back, but this doesnt mean that she doesnt like you.

just talk to her and tell her how you feel.
thats how you'll get a straight answer.
i wish you the best of luck!

Answer 4

I think it's stil okay based on what you are writing here. It doesn't seem like anything bad happenned. It seems like you had a good date, had a drink and fooled around and she didn't want it to go farther. I would call her today, not tomorrow. And make plans with her for a few days later.

Answer 5

I'm pretty sure she will still remember what happened. she probably said she was sleepy because she knew she was drunk but still knew she shouldnt have sex when shes drunk. no i dont think you messed up, but maybe next time, no drinking so you can find out whats really going on.

Answer 6

i think u r still good with her dude. u should give her a call but dont let her feel guilty about it - maybe u could make a date to go somewhere public where there is no way to fool around so she can know u r serious about her - ....Unless all u want to do is fool around again then it is meaningless

Answer 7

She sounds like someone who likes a attention if she fooled around so quickly on a first date. If you're in it for the booty, you may have found your girl (she sounds like a tease), but if you want someone for the long haul, do you really want someone who was ready to be felt up by someone she hardly knew? good luck.

Answer 8

hmm..well first of all we all know that drinks will get you tipsy lol. You shouldn't have had a drink during the date espessially if it was alcohol. Maybe you should ask her if she remembers anything because she probably will remember but she was just tired. Who knows. you just gotta ask her. I don't think you messed up but just be careful on your dates :]

Answer 9

you still good however let her be the first to bring the issue up because she is probaly feeling like you so continue on with your dating

Answer 10

your in good still cause you quit when she said she was ready to go home,call and she if she is ok?