ok..so for those of you that have cell phones, I met a guy on Air-G last summer, it's a mobile texting dating thing...anyway....We haven't spoken since last summer..we just drifted apart so he after all that time, he just called me and was like "I never forgot about you and I've been going through so much and I've been thinking about you so much the past few months and I want to start over cause I miss you" I'm in CT and he's in IN. What would you guys do? My head says see where it goes, my heart says, I just got out of a short relationship. I'm a little torn..I know there's a reason he came back...what should I do?
2007-01-13 06:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by Tasha D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that he just broke up with his gfriend and doesnt want to be alone. Tell him that you think it is better if you dont talk again. You just came our of a relationship, and you need time to sort yourself out, who knows you might be meeting the man of your dreams soon and then you dont want to be involved with some deadbeat who is just trying to use you as an escape code.
2007-01-13 06:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, doesn't sound like he told you why he disappeared. You are also far away from one another. Have you ever met him in person? As you probably already know, you always have to be somewhat suspicious in dating these days. I think if you are ready to start talking to him again, take things slow. Make sure you find out all you can about his background--ask him questions and then compare the answers to the answers he gives you to questions later. If you still feel suspicious later on, then maybe you don't trust him. If you get closer to him and you have never met in person, then make sure you don't meet him alone somewhere, maybe have a girlfriend with you, and make it a public place. Good luck!
2007-01-13 14:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dancing Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a guy to drift apart from talking to a girl for a long time or summer wise, something has been up with him. now i dont know who the guy is but alot of guys that go through this is either talking to other girls or busy with school or w/e he is in. You might want to just let your heart settle for a bit. I remember i was in this type of relationship and i did not let my heart settle in before having another relationship. So eventually it hurt both of him and i. long distance takes alot of effort so if your up for that then go ahead but you might want to think about this whole "starting over" with him. Talk to him. Ask him why he came back to you all of a sudden and such...
2007-01-13 14:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were dating someone via a cell phone??? That doesn't sound like the foundation of a good relationship. You have to understand that it wasn't dating. If you want to talk to him then talk to him. But don't base your relationship because of a few texts back and forth. Enjoy some human interaction. Sounds like you need it.
2007-01-13 14:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by -Bibee- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is telling you to be aware,. Listen. He said he had been going through a lot. It could be a bad marriage or another relationship and maybe he is in trouble. He knew your cell number to send you a text. Why didn't he send one before now? Sounds like that all he wants is to go to bed with you & when he does he will dump you.
2007-01-13 14:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by born again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't go anywhere. If you like him, see if he will come to see you. If not, he must be full of it. Don't always listen to your heart. It will get you in trouble.
I would go and see her, if I were the guy. I wouldn't expect too much, but I would go to see her anyway. This is of course if I was really thinking about her that much.
2007-01-13 14:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by FREEROB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall 4 cheap lines and cracks he is not feelin confused u r and u guys r in diferent states i have moved so much times its crazy and what i learned is long distance relationships NEVER work out. just 4get about it and move i kno its ALOT easier said then done but u got 2 trust me on this
2007-01-13 14:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did have a reson for not talking to you scince last summer,i would see were it goes...
2007-01-13 14:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sk8er Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been obsessing over you for a year? Either you are SUPER fine, or he's a stalker.
2007-01-13 14:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep an open relationship with other people but keep in touch.
2007-01-13 14:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋