Is there such thing as a soulmate? and is there only 1?

Question

There are two people that i like, alot.... and i believe both could be my soulmate, but is there such a thing?

Answer 1

No such thing as soul mates.

Answer 2

of course there is a thing such as a soulmate and i feel that there is someone for everybody it may be possible that you have 2 someones but at this time in your life

Answer 3

I don't believe that there is only one soulmate for each of us. I believe we create a soulmate by opening ourselves up to another person who chooses to do the same with us.

Chemistry is something between two people that cannot be created. It just is or it isn't and it's vital in order to feel complete and to be able to tolerate the difficult days when life isn't very kind. Chemistry has absolutely nothing to do with a persons appearance, but more about that magnetic pull that makes you want to be with them and not be able to keep your hands off of them and needing to pull them to you all the time... like they are a magnet... and you are steel (old song, but very true.)

Compatability between two people is also a must. This isn't about agreeing on every issue, but about being able to work together on every issue in pretty much the same fashion, with a similar approach, or a complimentary approach if it's an "opposites attract" sort of relationship. Too much the same and it gets boring. Too very different and you begin to rub each other the wrong way because someone is having to compromise every minute of the day. Compatibility... just a simple ability to share space and get along fairly easily.

Willingness to work. This is vital. Relationships are not easy under the best of circumstances. Two people must be willing to do the hard work to stick together in order for it to last. If either is unwilling or just lazy about keeping it moving between you, then it's lost because one partner will be left to carry the weight of the relationship, under which he/she will surely collapse.

Trust - this is a big one. It's only when you have complete and total trust for someone that you are able to open yourself fully in every aspect of your life (inner life as well as the shell they've gotten to know.) Without trust, you might as well shut it down now.

Once you have chemistry... compatability... willingness to work... and trust... then you can establish (by decision... by choice!) the person with whom you would like to develop a soulmate relationship.

Many people confuse "soulmate" with chemistry. Chemistry can be instantaneous upon meeting someone or just seeing them from across a crowded room. Soulmate is something that develops naturally if you allow it. It's why older couples finish each others sentences or sit in silence quite comfortably or read each others minds about when it's time to leave a party or time to invite Cousin Meryl for a visit. It's how a man who's had a stroke and become completely disabled can still communicate with and be respected by his lifelong partner... and it's how a woman with Alzheimer's can forget who her husband is and yet know she's safe when this stranger enters the room.

Choose your partner based on the proper criteria... and once it's all in place, develop the relationship so that you're true soulmates now and forever. Don't let anyone or anything kill a relationship you've worked so hard together to maintain... not the death of a parent, the birth of a child with disabilities, loss of a job or financial ruin. Be resilient as a couple and make the decision to stay together no matter what. Make it a choice... not something you do just because it feels right for now.

Best to you....

Answer 4

Your "soul" is an elusive, abstract, ever-evolving concept. In reality and for the sake of being practical, the long-term partner that you choose to be with should be compatible with you on many level, spiritually, mentally and physically, and share your hopes and dreams for the future. You have to take your time and get to know this person. And since you are not part of the circus, no, you cannot juggle both. Sit down and figure out which one of them you like most, and go for that one.
In any case you will find out that life is all about the art of compromise, even with your soul-mate.

Answer 5

Yes there is a such thing as soul mates. You will know when you find it they are real rare

Answer 6

Yes, there is and I think I have had two soulmates . It is a definite connection, that no one can get in between. It is fantastic and I hope you find one.

Answer 7

Yes, but your soulmate isn't neccessarily your love. I love my husband, but my best friend is my soulmate ~ we think on the same level, she always gives the advice that I know in my head is right, and even being separated by several states & bad phone connections hasn't weakend our bond.

Answer 8

i do no longer think of there is ONE soulmate for each individual - there are various human beings available with whom you have a brilliant relationship. i understand its unromantic, yet you ought to think of logically approximately it. There are over 6 BILLION human beings interior the international - if purely one out of 6 billion is your soulmate, ninety 9.999% of folk will possibly on no account even meet their soulmate. What in the event that they stay in some small village in Mongolia, or a tiny island interior the middle of the sea? you will on no account meet them.

Answer 9

You can have many soulmates. There is always more than one person who u can connect with physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Answer 10

sould mates are really rare, but in the whole wide world there probably is more than 1 for each of us - but it is a case of waiting to find them! I am 37 and still looking