even if the guy knows you are a virgin?
it should happen naturally no matter what right?
2007-01-13 05:56:50 · 15 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens naturally every time.
Stand strong.Hang on to your innocence. Do what is right for you. No regrets. : )
2007-01-13 06:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still a virgin, GOOD for you. That is something not many woman can say, and I would be damn proud of myself if I was you. Saying it should happen naturally is true, BUT naturally can also because of lust and not LOVE. If you waste your first time at too young a age, or with someone you dont truly love or dont truly love you, you can fall into a trap of doing it with more wrong men because you would think to yourself, well I have done it before, I lost it allready so why not. Imagine being a woman of 25 and meeting the man of your dreams, someone you know you can spend the rest of your life with, and being able to be honest with him by telling him that you have so much respect for yourself, that you havent given any man a chance to have his way with you!!! Be careful of people like friends and boy friends telling you that you have to because everyone does it.
2007-01-13 06:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should happens when you are married naturally. when you are a virgin you should wait until you are married. if you are young please wait until you are old enough where you don't need the advice you are seeking. once this guy take your virginity he is not going to be after you any more. stay a virgin , you will always have guys running behind you, just to be the first. don't think this guy have not told his friends about you being a virgin and he is going to be the first one. that guy wants it to happen now because you are a virgin. don't give in, i don't think you have a clue as to how raw it is to hear the word virgin let on meet one. stay a virgin and wear it with pride.
2007-01-13 06:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex is suppose to be a secrete moment between two people. It is suppose to be special and when both parties are ready for it. No one should be forced into doing anything they don't want too. Keep your morals and don't worry about what anyone has to say.
2007-01-13 06:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shouldn't just happen "naturally no matter what," it should be a special thing that you share with someone you love (when your ready). But it is a natural animal instinct....but as long as you're aware of the consequences of "doing it" and are ready to deal with them, it shouldn't be a bad thing.
2007-01-13 06:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see it would be better if u were married because if u get pregnant then chances no matter who he is then he will leave u b/c u are having a baby. and see y'all can make out and that can kind of satisfy u or u can hurry and get married to have sex if u really want it, but make sure u love him and he loves u and u two are right for eachother.
2007-01-13 06:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should happen when it feels right for it to happen. That's the only gauge... does it feel like the right time?
2007-01-13 06:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats what ive always thought. i wont be ready for it in a WHile...but i dont think ill ever be ready..but yet i know itll just come Naturally...
2007-01-13 06:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-13 06:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Shawn J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of yes.....with a virgin, he might need to help it along some.....make sure you really feel that he is the one you want to be with before you do it....good luck
2007-01-13 06:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋