Hey , I'm in need of some good advice ..../ no. bullsh!t...answers?

Question

ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minutes....and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..........but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend....now....I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice......oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13.....and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah..

but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)... ...oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?

Answer 1

dude , if you really like her ask her out man! you know why? shes 13, believe me they will say yes to you if your 15, its just the way it works for girls, dont ask me why. another thing is i think she was nervous around you and thats why she wasnt looking at you. she was probebly exspecially nerveous now that she knows you like her, so do it AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. otherwise things might get weird between you 2. trust me, i have lots of experiance with this kind of stuff.

Answer 2

Hello zach3b4vt_mt,

Having a girlfriend isn't for the faint of heart. If you want a date, you're going to need to ask her. You need to not be a pansy about this and ask the girl. The worst that she'll do is say no. Girls go for guys who are confident. They aren't going to make the first move. That's what you need to do.

Also remember that at 13, she's probably not allowed to go out or even have boy friends, so you might just have to be happy with learning to be her friend. But you really need to talk to her.

Pay attention to her. What's she wearing? Compliment her on her clothes, jewelry, etc. Talk about teachers or classes, or homework, but mostly about her. Look her right in the eyes and smile. If you can't do these things then you deserve to be a hermit. Get out of your shell and learn how to be more social.

Best of luck to you.

--Rick

Answer 3

Just go straight to the source..always going to a middle man messes things up, just go to her and talk to her often about anything or when you see her say hello. She wouldn't look at you because she is 13 (young) well so are you but anyway she was probably shy and embarrassed that you like her and don't know how to confront you either.

Answer 4

I think you should just go over to her and ask if she wants to go to a movie or skating or something..I would tho, recommend you look at girls your own age group. Some parents may not want their daughter at 13yrs old....seeing a 15yr old. Even tho it's only 2 yrs age difference..it is a huge difference.
GoodLuck*

Answer 5

it depends....it sounds like u might have a good chance but dont forget u should totally get to know her and tlk to her maybe u and some of both ur friends and her should go and hang out sumwhere and u end up tlking more to her????

Answer 6

id go right up to her....the guy i am going to marry someday did that to me in 9th grade and altho we were on and off, we are so right for one another. it would flatter her more, believe me.

Answer 7

well im a girl, n wen i find out a guy likes me. i get all shy and evrything. you should go up to her n make her laugh. girls love it wen you make thm laugh. n plus, say u like her shirt or necklace or sumthing so she knows that u do notice her style.

use this as a guide


If a guy or girl likes you, they wil..........


If he likes you he will........

1. He will sit by you whenever he can

2. He always takes things from you and hides them

3. He makes eye contact as much as possible

4. He messes with your hair

5. He laughs at you just to see you smile and tell him to shut up!

6. He asks about your day

7. When the two of you have play fights, he always agrues, no matter what

8. He sneaks up on you

9. His friends ask if youre going out yet

10. He tells you he loves you, and really means it

11. He purposly moves you down or off his friends list.




::if she likes you::

1. She will wait for you.

2. She says hi to you EVERYTIME she sees you

3. She SMILES whenever she sees you

4. She walks as slow as she can when shes WITH you

5. She plays with YOUR HANDS just to see if you'll let her hold them

6. She teases you about stupid things

7. She ASKS you to go places with her

8. Her friends ask you if you like her

9. Her friends point at you when youre with her

10. She always "just happens" to be staring

'11. She CAN'T CONCENTRATE on anything else except the next time she'll get to see you

12. Her HEART BEATS FASTER than normal at just the thought of your name

13. Her friends dont understand why she's attracted to you, but she cant think of ANY REASON why she WOULDNT be attracted

14. She purposely says shes cold just to see if youll hug her

15 And when you do... SHE WISHES YOU'D NEVER LET GO

16. She purposely moves you off or down her friends list.




*~*~*HOW GIRLS FLIRT*~*~*
1.She calls you by your full name not just a nick name.
2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.
3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.
4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.
6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.
8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
9. You catch her staring at you.
10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and says she talks about you a lot.
12. She knows your phone number and address.
13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

*~*~*HOW GUYS FLIRT*~*~*

1. He stares at you alot.
2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Brown Sugar" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You where invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you laugh even harder...
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, thighs, ect.)

Answer 8

U SOUND CONFUSE BUT DONT BE ITS OK.ITS UP TO YOU AND THE GURL NOT THE BESTFRIEND N U TAKE A CHANCE AND DO WUT U GOT TO DO.