last night my best friend went to meet up with this guy, it was just dinner then take a walk. well an hour later when she got back i was like what all happened? shes like we ate then walked down this alley and were holding hands, he asked if it was too soon to kiss and she said no. so they started making and he was up her shirt, feeling her up out in the alley. then they seriously made out like 8 more times and he has his hands on her butt the whole time and was feeling her up she said. this seems like this happened real fats for them just being friends, am i losing my mind or is this normal?
2007-01-13 05:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes 15, it wasnt a date.
they just met up to go to dinner and take a walk
2007-01-13 06:03:13 · update #1
You said -she went to meet up with this guy-you did not specify whether they were just friends or on a date. But ethier way in my opinion depending on the situation, if they were friends or not, if it was a date and your friend's AGE, I would think that might be a little fast. But everyone has their own opinion on what is too fast or not. Unforunately it Is normal. Lot's of people go really far on first dates. My opinion I would not let a guy get that far on a first date. That is the mistake so many girl's make and then they wonder why the guy get's so sick of them so quickly. You really need to leave something to the imagination. A man will have more respect for you if you don't give it all up on a first date. Of course all the men will scoff at this but I know there are girls out there that would agree with me. You didnt say that they DID go all the way but it sounds like maybe if they were in a different environment that would have been a different story. So really it is all a matter of opinion and what kind of person you are..
2007-01-13 06:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is Weird, but I don't think this is normal at all.
Friend + kiss 8 times = error
2007-01-13 05:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Diablo A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to slow down. Maybe he is only after one thing. How old is she?
2007-01-13 05:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not losing your mind and its not normal. if your friend keeps up with what she did she will end up pregnant and then she loses all her freedom
2007-01-13 05:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you worried about if your friend is getting any? you sound jealous... its normal for Gods sake! get over it and find you a man dam* girl
2007-01-13 05:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there's quemistry, and they wanted it, then it's normal. If they really wanted to, there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-13 05:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it probably is too fast, but it's not your problem. You can warn her about it, but don't get too involved . . . you have your own life.
2007-01-13 05:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋