at the end of the nite he gave me a bear hug that injured my breasts... should I be scared? Everything else was great... Will he know what to do if we keep dating? He said he wants to wait for the "real thing" and avoid STDs.... But I am apprehensive to go out again. What should I do?
2007-01-13 05:41:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would respect his wish to not have sex until he is sure about the relationship. However, I would make sure that that is why he is waiting. After you go on a few more dates and get to know him better, sit him down and have a talk to make sure he isn't hiding any other reasons for not wanting to have sex. (I.E. he may have an STD, be impotent, have been sexually abused, etc.)
As for the hugging, I would give him a few more. Next time, if he hugs too hard just say, "Can we try that again? But this time, let's make it a little softer and more romantic."
I would definately give this guy a few chances. My boyfriend was a bit sexually awkward when I first dated him. However, he was very egar to learn how to please. Now, we have an amazing time together.
2007-01-13 06:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The poor guy is probably just way out of practice, and nervous and (he won't admit it) scared. If you otherwise like the guy and get along, give it a chance! Just tell him "too tight!" if he over-hugs again... communicate. And don't expect someone to "just know" something if you never tell them!
2007-01-13 13:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him not to hug so hard some guys are a little rough and don't even think about it go out a few more times to see if you like him or not
2007-01-13 13:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by W2D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot and tell him not to hug so hard. But I'd be a little suspicious . It could be line he uses to get laid.
2007-01-13 14:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by ameerah m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should continue to see him even if it's just merely dating, I mean... the worst that can happen is that yous end up really good friends or it could turn into something else, I think he wants you to break him of his 10 year dry spell :) :) :)
2007-01-13 13:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete tool. There's no way he's going to be able to turn you out properly.
2007-01-13 15:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im only 13, i hope i havnt had sex in the last ten years! teenager or not, there's a lot of guys tht havnt popped their virginity!
2007-01-13 13:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by DeanB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he injured your breasts?!? well, ask him to be more gentle, and see how he is. if he continues to be rough, then maybe he's not the one for you
2007-01-13 13:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Konrad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple, tell him not to hug so hard.
2007-01-13 13:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take a hike,you don't need that kind of relationship
2007-01-13 13:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋