WEDDINGS Ring a Bell <3?

Question

well i suppose to be in my friends mother haitian wedding. however i dont want to beacuse i could not fit into the bridesmaid dress and it was a 11/12 size. im not fat but curvy with big c 40 breast and a big butt. the wedding is onm the 20 of this month. i told my friends mom that i didnt want to be in the wedding anymore. i dont want a differnt dress than everybody else and i dont want to go to the wedding and see all the braids maids walk down the isle in the dresses i couldnt fit. if i couldnt fit an 11/12 then what dress can i fit. once again im not fat just tall [6 ft] and curvy with a puggy stomach. when my friends mom ask me to wear a gurtle i defintly didnt want to bein the wedding i am 16 and she said that to me. i told her i dont want to be in the wedding and she said o.k at first, then as soon as i walk away she start yelling my name and said she would not get married without me she love me to much. that sweet and all but she dont know that i cant walk in heels so why do it

she thinks that oh if i get her a dress everything will be fine haitains are sweet. but who am i going walk with ? i dont feel comfortabe wearing flats while everyone else has on heels. it just tooo many promblems for this one braidsmaid i wish she would see that <3

Answer 1

Well do whatever feels right for you, go with your instincts, but also take into account that the wedding is not about you or for you. It is the other womans day, and I think that you should try to do your best to make her happy.

Answer 2

Have you thought about going to a size 13/14? I mean, this is an average size for girls, really. It's not stating that your fat, etc. This seems to mean alot to your friends mother and you should be honored that she wants you to be part of this very special event.
Give it some thought, this is HER day, put on a bigger size dress, go have fun and remember this special day and just be happy for her. Good luck!!