she was toilet trained approx. 5 months ago, and was doing great. but over the last 3 weeks shes started weeing herself 2-3 times a day which is frustrating.All though she is still going on the toilet sometimes.i ask her regularly if she needs to use it and she says no.she can be stood next to her potty or the toilet and she just stands there and wees herself.how should i handle this? i admit i have raised my voice on a few occasions asking her why she didn,t tell me. i know this could make it worse, and i am trying to ignore it, but it,s hard. she is very stubbern and strong willed, do you think it is just a phase? she is soon going to be starting in a day nursery, and i don,t know what to do?
2007-01-13 04:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by alemap 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
WHEN SHE HAS AN ACCIDENT PUT A DIAPER ON HER. TELL HER IF SHE GOES TO THE POTTY THEN YOU'LL GIVE HER PANTIES BACK. IF NOT THEN SHE HAS TO KEEP DIAPERS. AND CONTINUE IT. TALK TO HER AND LET HER KNOW THAT BIG GIRLS WEAR "BIG GIRL PANTIES" AND THAT DIAPERS ARE FOR BABIES.....YOU KNOW. IT WORKED FOR ME.
2007-01-16 20:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regression is common when there are big changes and/or stress on hand.
Both of my kids had a period of regression when I divorced. To get them out of it, I started taking away a favorite toy for every occurrence. When they did use the toilet they got a toy back. This lasted for about a week and then they were using the toilet again without a problem.
The key is to not get mad and be calm like nothing had happened. Just clean up, grab the toy, inform them of why the toy is being taken, and what they need to do to get it back.
2007-01-13 05:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter went through this exact same thing-and yes,I got quite upset by it,though I always did my best to keep my cool. After constantly having to change her,bring extra clothes out with us,etc..,I told her she'd have to go back into nappies. She was not at all happy about this,howling that she wasn't a baby. The accidents suddenly stopped. In my daughter's case,it was attention seeking. Unless there have been some changes in yours and your daughter's life,or stress-I'd say it's also a bit of attention seeking.
2007-01-13 05:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-16 06:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my little girl relapsed about 6 months in to been dry also. i just totally ignored the accidents. changed her with no fuss or reaction, and riddicuosly praised the wees and poos on the toilet. (she still gets a small treat for pooing!) I also bought her pants with a pic on of somthing she really liked and told her it was her job to look after them, they would be very sad if they got wet! (mad but it seemed to do the trick, cinderella didnt like been peed on!) i just dont think they can be bothered to go to be honest.
i wouldnt reccomend asking her if she wants it (unless going in car; out for a while e.t.c) as she will rely on you to 'inform' her its time to go, my brother did this with my niece and now aged 4 she goes every 10mins as thats how often they asked her!
just stick with it and itll come right.
good luck!
2007-01-13 07:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by werky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there stress at home? Sometimes major changes can cause toilet training regression. She might also be nervous about starting school/daycare.
otherwise she might have a urinary tract infection. You might want to ask your pediatrician just to be on the safe side.
2007-01-13 05:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don,t think your alone. My 3 yr old does this from time to time, and like your daughter hes been potty trained for quite some time.
I threaten to put him in his baby brothers nappies.
Although i believe he'll grow out of it, this does temporarily solve my problem!!!
Good luck!!
2007-01-14 09:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by sarahjanec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the bathroom EVERY HOUR by the hour!! If that doesn't work if she makes a mess when she pees herself on the floor tell her to clean it up! Thats how I was potty trained. If that don't work then check out websites about this problem. Good Luck!!
2007-01-13 05:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2017-02-19 18:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter done the same thing,dont make an issue out of it i didnt it probuably is just a phase,my daughter stopped when she went to nursery i think she done it just to try me.
2007-01-13 05:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋