I liked this girl and i told her, but she tells me that she doesn't feel a special connection between us. And I really really liked her. She still wants to be friends, and we hang out with the same group of people. Everytime i see her, or talk to her, all my feelings come out again. What do i do?
2007-01-13 04:54:13 · 14 answers · asked by SmartGuy584 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there's nothing you can do except move on because you can't make a girl love you. So move on with your life.
2007-01-13 04:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her.
In the end, a friendship will never work. All that it will do is just cause you to keep retracing those feelings; it's counteractive to the process of getting over her. So, in turn, you have to forget her, cut her out of your life and move on.
I spent four years of my life chasing after a girl and it wasn't worth it. I had a hard time getting over it. Even though I say I hate her now, I still care. But she really isn't at the forefront of my mind... so I'm not the same broken, depressed person I was.
So, in the end, forgetting her was the right thing to do... do the right thing.
2007-01-13 06:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away from her. You can still be friends, but honesty it will be difficult. Hanging out with someone you have those type of feelings for is not a good idea and its just going to make it harder. Once again, stay away. She already said she doesn't have feelings and you can't change that. Move forward.
2007-01-13 04:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t think that she can make it any clearer to you how she feel's.She told you she does not have a connection for you as a boyfriend but she does want to be your friend you need to accept that.You cannot force someone to want to be with you.If you try to force a relationship on her you will also lose her as a friend.Back off and accept thing's for what they are.
2007-01-13 05:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My BF said that to me b4 and i rejected him and he was patience and never force me to commit anything. Now after 3 years of courtship we are married. So be patient and go with the flow if you really really like her. She most likely need to see the REAL you so if you kept on pressuring her, she will get piss.
2007-01-13 05:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing with a guy,he likes me I'm just playing hard to get (I'm evil i know) she'll pull through. I'm planning on accepting next time he asks me out.
2007-01-13 13:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on to a girl that will love you for you
2007-01-13 04:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it's clear that she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her, why don't you avoid her for awhile to keep from getting hurt?
2007-01-13 04:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a while to get rid of this feeling or live with it in the rest of your life. when you love somebody and when you can't get her, you will think she is perfect. so perfect for you and you are blind.
2007-01-13 05:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a cold shoulder and she'd be crazy bout you
2007-01-13 04:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋