There is this girl I know in my year that has been known to "pull" 12 year olds and keeps on going out with guys 3 to 5 years younger than her.
Personaly I think she is a bit twisted... and it is morally wrong.
What do you think about it?
2007-01-13 04:50:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm..thats a little too old to be going out with a 14 year old. I could see if it was a 24 year old going out with like a 18 year old. But thats just horrable.
Good Luck anyway ; )
2007-01-13 04:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sickening when a girl does it and she's 18 "pulling" a 12 year old that's not right, but then again guys do it too so is it more right for a guy who's 18 to be doing it than a girl? On one side I half believe that age ain't nothing but a number, but there are limits to that saying.
2007-01-13 04:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Losty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This girl should be arrested! She is a child molester and needs to be stopped. What would you think if she was molesting your brother? It is the same thing as a male molesting a female child. And these guys will get the idea that it is OK to do this to young girls. Turn her in, and do it RIGHT NOW! You are just as guilty as she is from a moral stand point if you let it continue.
DO IT NOW! You can do it without giving your name if you want, but DO IT NOW! And give the names of victims to the police also. they will need help and monitoring.
2007-01-13 05:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need more details...
Ie how mature is she? its usually a case of guys very inexperienced and immature for their age who would date 15 year olds maybe 14 year olds with no bad intentions but anything below that is very worrying. And thats from somone with an liberal attiude to the age of concent in relation to teens with teens.
Could be guys her age have mistreated her, possibly abused her so 'scared' of older guys' so to speak.
Or she shes herself as 'Lisa' in Weird Science ie the 'mature' babe who teaches the horney teen boys about life and girls.
Ie the girls guys loose their cherrie with whos up for it.
But as said can understand that 14 and over but 12-13... thats worrying.
14 and upwards guys may be horny even below AO concent but 12-13 year old boys are more into football and comics then coodie girls.
Ask her why shes making a habit out of this
2007-01-13 05:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its sick, its just as bad if an 18 year lad goes out with a 14 year old girl, its just wrong and as you say morally wrong, thats really gross.. eww tell her to get somebody older or her own age. Girls go for guys older for maturity she seems to be doing it the opposite way round. If i went out with a 12 year old lad id be dating a child its just eww cringe worthy so so wrong
2007-01-13 04:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats definetly wrong, but since the offender is female, she'll get away with it. but thats not as bad as this one guy at work (grocery store), he's middle aged, tall, hunched over, bald, smells like he only baths once a week, and he's been in prison. he always hits on these 15-17 year old girls that are unfortunate enough to work closing hours (He and I are on the night stocking crew). the funny thing is that he honestly thinks he's attractive and and that these girls like him. whats not funny is that he claims that he SHARED a 12 year old neighbor girl in his apartment complex with another WOMAN! I'd called the cops, but I just don't believe it. I mean, I don't want to talk bad about people, but this guy, and that woman your talking about, are freaks and need to be put away.
2007-01-13 07:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit weird, maybe she is just immature. She might like the sense of being in control. If she was a guy i would think she was a paedophile. I've never heard of female paedophiles. I think it might just be a case she feels more comfortable with this age group and as they are underage knows there is no expectation of sex in the relationship. But I might be being too sympathetic...it isn't normal.
2007-01-13 05:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by harvestmoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i agree with you because i don't think they can have a real relationship. when theres only 2 years difference or so, it's ok because both are more or less as mature as the other one, but supposedly an 18 year old is more mature than a 12 year old.
2007-01-13 05:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has sex with them, she could be in some major legal probelms.
The older a person gets, the less concern about dating those years younger or older than you.....but not below the age of 18.
2007-01-13 04:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was a 14 year old girl i was going out with an 18 year old. We weren't having sex, so nothing was wrong. I don't think its wrong if this is the case. But girls grow up quicker than boys so it seems strange that this girl wants to go out with such immature boys. Maybe she's not very confident - she may appear it, but she may not be really.
2007-01-13 04:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋