..so...recently, me and my boyfriend broke up after "going out" for 10 months cuz he said he didn't know how he felt....we were best friends for 2 years before and now we're doin good as good friends again. I'm confused, though, because he's starting to flirt with me a lot and give me compliments....he's even tried kissing me a couple times......i don't know whether to wing it and risk gettin hurt or not......is he just playin with my head or does he actually want something other than the physical stuff?
2007-01-13 04:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i am in no position to tell you how to live your life but he is probably trying to tell you his true feelings.Unfortunatly he is either shy or afraid to tell you staright so is doing it in the wrong way. take my advice and take a leap. a chance. it might work.
just dont live your life thinking about what could have been.
2007-01-13 04:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by jake1kenobi98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ppl want what they cant have, one they have it they leave it, thats how ppl act. This guy just wanted to have something with u other just beeing friends, so things went his way and u ended up beeing lovers not only friends, now after 10 monthes he realised that wait...i think i am not sure how i feel about this girl, so u two broke up, now the thing "the twist" is that u two stayed friends and close, so he knows what u r doing every day or every a couple of friends, at some point he realised that maybe u will be going out and looking for someone new, and that triggered something in him, and thats why now he wants u back, just to satisfy something inside him, so then if u let him back again in your life, after a couple of months and not 10 months he will be calling u telling u that u have to talk.
2007-01-13 12:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alex S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down and set boundaries. Discuss if you want to remain just good friends or boyfriend and girlfriend.
You need mutual respect and to be on the same page, otherwise you risk hurting one, other or both's feelings.
Do you want a long-term relationship? If so ask him where he sees himself in 5 years time. Does that match up to your expectations? Communication is one of the main factors in a good solid relationship. Without it you are doomed. Also there is no such thing as a successful one-sided relationship.
I can recommend a good book which is easy to read. It is based on biblical principles, but it contains good straight forward advice, whatever you believe spiritually. The book is "The Secret of Loving" by Josh McDowell.
I wish you both all the best whichever way you decide to go.
2007-01-13 12:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by richard555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young having a friend for ever is keeping it friendship.
if your a little older then friends do become partners sometimes.
I wrote this to another girl that met a guy online, see if you can relate to this.
Forget him.... It's real easy to fall in love on the computer. I know I've been there. After being heart broken and getting over it I log back on and searched in my area ONLY. Yes I met Girls in my area and most of them were different than what I expected. There personality were not the same in real life. However Keep searching The right one is there looking for you. After a few months I found my girlfriend. We dated for about a year and a half then moved in together. and things have been very good scents then. Well HAPPY searching. gtg
P.S we have together for 9 years now.
2007-01-13 13:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has realized that he made a mistake. He has realized that you are the best thing out there for him at the moment and he wants you back.
Or maybe he's just really confused. Talk to him about what happened with you guys at first and then decide based on that.
2007-01-13 12:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that problems, and don`t date him he is like playing around and want to date u and then break, he only want a date for a while with some one.
2007-01-13 12:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely cheated on you, thats the reason for the whole time apart bs. Now he probably doesn't have someone so he is trying to get you back.
2007-01-13 12:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like for sure, he wants the physical stuff. Use caution and move ahead.
Time can tell you if it is genuine.
2007-01-13 12:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't been able to find another girl yet and is
just horny so he is coming back for another drink at the well
he already knows...That well being you....
2007-01-13 12:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way of knowing unless you ask him. The real question is how do you feel about him?
2007-01-13 12:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋