ok so my ex bf has been acting really weird...i was at a party last night and he would watch me dance and then take pictures of me and then he would like pull me over to places by my hands and things like that....does he still like me...i really need help i dont know what to do...he acts weird all the time and i catch him looking at me some times...so please help!!!
2007-01-13 04:42:47 · 12 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he broke up with me if that makes a difference
2007-01-13 04:47:53 · update #1
he broke up with me because we dont do stuff and we didnt talk enough...but there was more too it but he didnt tell me because he didnt like to talk about it
2007-01-13 04:49:43 · update #2
Tell him to quit taking pictures of you.
2007-01-13 04:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little "disturbed" to me. Why not ask him what's up?
Maybe that he still has feelings but thinks he is not good enough for you, or due to his situation in life wants to protect you from something. Just ask him! Then if you get no favorable answer, leave the party when he is there and leave him on his own. One other thing, if you are not together anymore, he has no right to "take hold of your hands", so don't let him do it anymore. You will send him a message that you are not a push over any longer.
He may want a "friend with privileges". He lost those privileges when he dumped you dear. And don't let him forget it either. Be strong and smart.
2007-01-13 12:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look be frank straight out and asked him do u want me back or are you playing games with me I have no time for, it's all about being honest then you know how to move forward so confused.The Bluenotes sang a song Just Be True. That Harold Melvin and the Bluenotes.
2007-01-13 12:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by busthead213 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still like your ex-bf or are you going with someone new? Ask your ex if he still wants to be with you-there's nothing wrong in asking questions-they bring clarity to a situation. So ask him other than that -if you don't want him back then let him know that and you move on with your life-in that situation-don't let him be doing things to you to confuse you. Just say NO.
2007-01-13 12:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still likes you. Why did you guys break up? How long ago was it? All things to consider before taking him back, if you don't want too. Don't give him any of those vibes, just stay cool, he'll calm down after a bit when he realizes your not interested.
2007-01-13 12:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you back, maybe he regret breaking up with you or mayb he thinks you dont mind having a fling with him since both or you have been together in the past.
So whatever your do, do not let him cross the line.
2007-01-13 12:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does definitely sound that he has second thoughts. I would be honest and upfront...if you don't want anything to do with him...let him know. If you still would like to spend time with him, ask him directly what the deal is.
2007-01-13 12:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he still likes you, if you decide to take him back, consider these things first...
1)why did you two break up?
2)did he traet you well
3)if he broke up wth you, is he the kind of person that will keep playing with your heart (breaking up, getting back together...)
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-13 12:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by *chicka_chicka_boom_boom* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he is now LUSTING after you.
When you are dealing with people who really don't know what they want, it's best to keep as much distance as you can.
2007-01-13 12:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him?
you need to think about that.
Most likely he is just playing with you.
2007-01-13 12:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by littlehappy_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋