he said he wanted a couple of weeks not more than a month but a couple of weeks is a month and i already miss him its been a week i havent seen him and my freind wants to hook me up with this guy i dont know if i should or not i need advice
2007-01-13 04:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by emo chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When people are put on anti-depressants it does make them go through unfamiliar changes and it can cause up and down feelings.....is it fair to you no....is it fair not to give him time....no
Anti-depressants are hard a person to adjust to...but if the right anti-depressant is found you will have someone who will be alot better emotionally...so is the wait worth it...I would say yes!
How long...no one can really answer that...anti-depressants should be taken for a couple of weeks before ones body can know that it is accepting the med.....it may be a case where they have to try a couple of anti-depressants before the right one can be found.
So in saying all this....if this person is someone who you really love you will give him and the Dr. some time to get the right med and time to get adjusted to the med....if this is something you cannot accept then maybe its time you move on.
Good luck
2007-01-13 04:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all.. your friends should not be hooking you up with some other guy if they know that you have a boyfriend. second of all.. ask your boyfriend how much time is he gonna need because you're right about "couple of weekS is a week." ask him if things are gonna work between you two because i m sure you dont wanna be with someone who wants to take tons of time alone from his g/f.
2007-01-13 12:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ezzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's depressed and asks to be alone for a few weeks respect his wishes. Don't leave him simply because of this--it would be leaving him when he really needs you. To abandon someone who trusts you when they are depressed is something that is rarely the right thing to do.
2007-01-13 12:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's on antidepressants he probably isn't able to be the boyfriend that you need him to be anyway, and you might want to think about other options. antidepressants suck; you walk around happy but then when you don't take them, or you skip them, you're all suicidal and stuff and don't even want to hear your own thoughts. of course they've gotten a lot better than they were when I was taking them, but they're still habit forming. give him as much time as he needs, and if he can't figure out how long that is, perhaps you two are better off as friends ...
2007-01-13 12:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love him then you will respect him and give him the time that he need's.If you choose to go out with another guy then obviously you do not love your boyfriend and if that is the case be honest and tell your boyfriend what you are doing.He deserves that respect he had enough respect to be honest with you so you need to give him the same respect in return.
2007-01-13 12:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE!! Respect his wishes. When he is ready, he will let you know. You didn't say how old the two of you are, or what kind of relationship you have. If you are in a love relationship, do you really want to jeopardize that with going out? Good luck, and love and support him.
2007-01-13 12:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by enchiladagirltacomaniacmurraylov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hook up! wait for your guy to come back. i know you miss him, but depression is serious and if, when he comes back, he finds out you hooked up, his depression could get 10 times worse
2007-01-13 12:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try calling him and see if hes okay and see if you guys could possibly hangout. but if he needs more time just let him be if not go and see him and spend time with him since you miss him.
2007-01-13 12:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by ajdgzmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say if you really love your b/f you wait for him and give him the time he needs being depressed is extremely difficult to overcome on your own he will need you to be w/ him.....
2007-01-13 12:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋