i recently asked out a long time friend but it didnt go the way i planned. she went to my locker and said she didnt want to go out w/ me right now because we're good friends and she wants to keep it that way. before i asked her out, she was really nice to me and didn't mind if i bugged her in class like i do w/everyone else. in fact, she did a bad job of covering up the fact she didn't mind it. i need a girl's advice on this one.
2007-01-13 04:28:54 · 10 answers · asked by DeanB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup she may definitely like you not kidding that was the same thing i told my b/f when he asked me out the first time i wasnt ready for some many other personal problems but i did like him and had a great time w/ him and afraid i was just going to **** up and end our friendship i told him not at that time now we are going out i said yes the second time and have been together since.....good luck!!!♥
2007-01-13 04:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that she may be confused. I think she likes you because she said yes on the first place, but maybe that date wasn't that good for her and she realized that she preferred to have you only as a friend, as always.
maybe what you can do is to talk to her and tell her how you feel, let her tell you also what she thinks and then, decide what is best for both of you.
good luck!
2007-01-13 12:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she does like you but not relationship wise. it would be nice if you two would go out but it would be kind of awkward also since you new each other for a long time. its like you guys are brother and sister and she just doesnt want to ruin the true friendship you guys have.
2007-01-13 12:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by ajdgzmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with her. Good relationships always start out being friends first. Take your time and have fun. She will let you know when she wants more then just friendship ;)
2007-01-13 12:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels weird now because you told her you like her as more than a friend ..and even though you yyou bug everyone else she may see that as you flirting with her and trying to get her to be you girlfriend...let her know that you CAN be JUST friends with her and maybe things will go back to what they used to be
2007-01-13 12:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by jackie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really values yall friendship...but if she likes you then she would be flirting and being very girly...lol...She was nice cause yall friends and she enjoys your company...Most people would be scared to try with friends cause somethings if it wouldnt work out they dont want that wierd awkward feelings..and they dont wanna lost they close friendship..mite be better that way!!
2007-01-13 12:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by confused69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just feels a bit awkward that u like her, just act normally dont get weird or anything but give her a little space, good luck to you x x x
2007-01-13 12:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course she likes you. infact i wish i had been that smart because now me and him arent talking as much or anything. and he was a good friend... give her time. if you guys break up, still be friends...
2007-01-13 12:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by *~*flyleaf rocks out loud*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS LIKE YOU GUYS HAVE A GOOD FRIENDSHIP AND YOU SHOULD KEEP IT AT JUST THAT! DONT MESS WITH A GOOD FREINDSHIP!
2007-01-21 12:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by smfry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope-well actually im not sure. she wouldve said yes if she liked u right?
2007-01-13 12:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by SILVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋