Not in a mean way because he has done alot for me. I have tried many times to end it but he just wont take no for an answer when he ask me to come over. I don't want to hurt him but I just cant do it anymore.
2007-01-13 04:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my perspective you are in your own place and he is in his right? Well tell him straight out that the relationship isn't what it used to be and you want to move on. If he doesn't get the picture and escalates the conversation.... I'd get a restraining order! Ignore his calls, and if he shows up ignore the door!
2007-01-13 04:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥xvioletx1882♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask yourself if sex or lack of it is the what you want to build a relationship on. Do you love him as much as he loves you and it sounds like he does.
If sex is the only thing, talk to him about it otherwise he will have no clue on how you feel. There are some things that he can possibly do to help you with this, but definitely talk to him.
2007-01-13 12:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go onto yahoo to answer questions to help people and this is what I find?
Your my girlfriend and I love you, why are you trying to break up with me?
It's not that I won't take no for an answer, it's that I won't listen when you say no. That's not the same thing is it?
PS Cheating with my best friend is a sure fire way to make me want it to end.
PPS Please dont cheat with my best friend!
2007-01-13 12:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by no free rides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly step away from the situation. Stop excepting gifts from him, dont come over as much, and give him the cold shoulder. Yeah its not nice, but u have to think about urself as well. And when u do meet someone else let him know, and maybe he will back off. But Back off slowly.
2007-01-13 12:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you don't stick up for yourself, no one will. No one.
I am hearing you say that it is difficult. I would suggest beyond saying "No", you could take a friend over there with you, each and every time. If nothing else, your friend will get tired of it, and help you to say no.
Learn to not only stick up for yourself, but to take care of yourself. Then, you probably won't find yourself in this situation.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-13 12:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knows....but he wants the sex....tell him no more sex be a friend...and let him know you care ....he was good but You have to move on...........15 years "he had his fun"-God bless
xo xo take good care
2007-01-13 12:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Smith & Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is somebody to care for you in this topsy turvy world then you have achieved what others are aspiring for.
2007-01-13 12:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't. Just end it. He has no power over you unless you give it to him, & you obviously have in the past.
2007-01-13 12:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to be stern with him and let him know your finished with the relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-01-13 12:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you for sex any way so tell him you are sick of it and no more sex period sooner or later he will move on.
2007-01-13 12:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by vetech_61 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋