my bf keeps deleting my password for the computer. we r both administrations so he can just go in a remove it. the question is why? he is the one who has a history of cheating. he tells me he loves me and trusts me but he keeps doing. i dont personally care if its password protected or not i just wanted to see if he would actually do it. someone help me :(
2007-01-13 04:13:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok - a few things......
1. Your problem is not so much of a password problem as it is a relationship one....it lacks transparency.
2. Once a cheater, always a cheater.....so before he breaks your heart again, dump him...
3. He doesn't trust you - a person who cannot be trusted doesn't trust others...and his behaviour definitely doesn't show that he trusts you
4. Talk to him and tell him how u feel....but if he continues this behaviour, it goes to show that he's trying to hide something which shows a lack of trust. It could be a very minor thing - but it could not be so too....for some reason he wants to either limit your access to the computer or harass you.....
and neither is a good sign
5. Trying to hide something or being secretive even shows insecurity on his part as he fears you may not like to find out whatever he is hiding....and he fears your reaction.....he is insecure himself....
your relationship doesn't seem to be healthy... so talk it out with him, let him know how you feel and if things don't change,....it's time to move on....
You should be with someone whom you can trust and who can trust you, who will never cheat on you or try to hide things from you.
2007-01-13 04:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Delete's Ur Password U Do the Same thing.
If u also have Administrator Rights U Can Also Change it.
Also Tell Him That If He Changes ur Password u will Scan His
Computer For Hidden Files and Folder's And U Might Find Dirty
Materials Stored On His Disk.
2007-01-13 12:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Om 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if he has a history of cheating on you why are you still with him? A guy like that doesn't deserve to be in a solid relationship. If he has cheated on you and said "Oh but I still love you" he's lying. If he really just loved/liked you he would never have to cheat on you. Guys cheat for different reasons but the main one is because their girlfriends don't provide enough for them sexually. Now do you really want to be with a guy like that? Now by deleting the password on your computer he's being a hypocrite. Comfront him about it and ask him to stop, and tell him you don't like his jealousy. He has no right to think that you trust him since he has cheated on you. Bottom line is you should get out of this relationship before he breaks your heart even more.
2007-01-13 12:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remove him as an administrator. Press start=> control panel=>users then remove him or limit his access. Don't forget to change your password. By the way why do you need a different password? use the password as he is using.
2007-01-13 12:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this is unacceptable. You know the history of his cheating. If he has nothing to hide, he will not continue to do this. It's a matter of trust as I see it. The next move is his, then you need to decide.
2007-01-13 12:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing, hun, if he's cheating on you he has no right to be with you. Letting go of someone you love hurts, but what hurts more is realizing that they don't care about your feelings by cheating on you. IT's like you're just their plaything. He's especially trash when he turns it around and acts like YOU'RE cheating.
2007-01-13 12:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him y r u doin this. if he trust he will stop and if doesnt stop get ur own computer. and if askes and r u cheating say u drove me to this u would stop deleting my password. thinkin i been cheating when ur the only one whos done in this relationship
2007-01-13 12:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cloudz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him and get another bf. He feels that because he messed up u will too. He wants to have you to himself but you must share him. There is no relationship without trust!!
2007-01-13 12:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by sweetchica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him straight.If he was the one who cheated you ones that why he is so insecure that you will eventually cheat him.You should also ask him why he doesn't trust you and explain to him that all relationships are based upon TRUST!I hope I helped.
2007-01-13 12:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want to get caught or he really wants you to catch him by being suspicious. Get rid of him the boy has issues.
2007-01-13 12:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by kalbri3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋