i'm 19 years old and he is 20.We have been separated for 6 months now,and I only just realized I'm still in love with him.He is now involved with another woman(in fact,this is what made me realise how i feel).During these last 6 months he has been constantly trying to convince me to go back to him,but i kept turning him down,because the last time we broke up,i went back to him,and it didn't work out.I'm not sure of what i should do....so please help me figure it out!
2007-01-13 04:10:57 · 12 answers · asked by poisongirl877 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is the time where you just need to think about why it never really worked out in the first place. You may love someone but that doesnt always mean they are the one for you. Besides, your still young and have plenty of time to find that perfect guy for you!!
2007-01-13 04:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by AiR 2 Breathe™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your really still in love with him or are you just jealous he has moved on? If you really do still love him than what could it hurt to tell him how you feel? Yeah rejection maybe, but if you two have a history together and really love one another than you'll find a way to make it work.
2007-01-13 04:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you a chance to change your mind, you turned it down. He has moved on, your too late. Its only because he is with someone else, that you think you want him now. There is someone for everyone. You two had your chance, it did not work. Let him be happy with someone else. You go do the same.
2007-01-13 04:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on! He is involved with someone else now so that should tell you something. If it didn't work out when you went back to him, why would it work out now? You can't go back to him just because he has someone else. You need to let go and move on.
2007-01-13 04:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sure about this. You cannot be wishy washy. He will be nothing but confused if you keep going back and forth. He needs a good reason to take a second look. You have to provide that reason.
2007-01-13 04:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know what your goin through because im still inlove with my ex boyfriend ..but he says he still loves the girl he broke up with me for ...stay friends with him and be patient see if things work out with them nd if they dont tell him you still have strong feelings for him and you want to get back together...maybe in the process you could try and make him alittle jealous by hanging out with a bunch of other guys and letting him know it..lol
2007-01-13 04:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by jackie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say once bitten twice shy.
You have done it the last time you went back.
Why would you want to do that again?
2007-01-13 04:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by SP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to weigh your feelings.. make sure! if you really love him. talk to him. if the two of you is really meant for each other, youll be together.woman should know how to get his man back...
2007-01-13 04:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by pete s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to bang at least five tot en new guys int eh next two weeks
this will solve all your problems
use a condom too
2007-01-13 04:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by david s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel & let ur heart speak..if he still dnt want u bak then learn 2 move on n fix ur broken heart :D lol
2007-01-13 04:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by ben s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋