Speaking on the phone to someone before meeting them will make you feel more comfortable around them when you do meet them?
2007-01-13 04:03:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think maybe it will.. Like if you start chatting or something with a person and then start getting to know eachother, so that when you meet you already know can you speak about, like if you were old friends. Plus, when you are talking on the phone, you already know eachothers voice so that makes the thing more personal.
However maybe you make a mental image about her voice and when you meet her she is totally different so maybe that may cause you disappointment. But I think that is not a great deal, so yes, I think that speaking on the phone before meeting someone may make things more comfortable when you meet them.
2007-01-13 04:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm not necessary and depends on what you guys talk about. When you speak to the person on the phone, your mind will start working and you will try to imagine how the other person look like, picturing the person weather he/she is a blond, is he/her hot and etc. So when you finally meet the person if he/she is what you imagine then u will be ok otherwise I think u will feel a bit funny.
2007-01-13 12:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I think that its better to talk to someone on the phone before you even see them or meet them just because it helps quickly to determine if you like them but it should help you to talk to them better once you do meet them. Unless you are just really that shy.
2007-01-13 12:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by AiR 2 Breathe™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it does as long as you keep it short and don't use up all your talking points. Meaning leave something to talk about when you meet.
2007-01-13 12:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. when speaking on the phone you can stay in your comfort zone, the other person can only hear your voice, he has nothing else to judge you by
2007-01-13 12:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by theartist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can be beneficial providing when talking on phone both people are being 100% honest.
2007-01-13 12:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the nature of the conversation.
2007-01-13 12:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does help and you will find connections you didn't know you had. Sending flowers helps too.
2007-01-13 12:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you might get to find out things that you normally wouldn't.
2007-01-13 12:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I agree.
2007-01-13 12:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋