Is 4 inches bad????
my bf is 4 inches erect and we havent done anything just yet but hes afraid he can not please me because it is small....when i saw how small he was he just buttoned back up and sat down so we sat their together laying aginst eachother for hours. he was so sad and unset. please is 4 inches really that bad? is their anything i can do to help him increase his size so he feels better about himself. please help.
...only serious answers please if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it
2007-01-13 04:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok here's the thing. I'm not saying anything different from the other answers, but believe me, size doesn't matter. Actually, women get to orgasms on a different way, honestly!! Maybe he doesnt have the biggest thing ever, but if he knows what are your special areas, he can make you feel better than anyone with a bigger thing. For women, imagination is very important while having sex.. tell her how you feel about him, he really needs your support because he may feel very bad... and then say some nice or naughty things to each other and foreplay a lot. You may also ask him what he thinks about sexual toys or anything, so that you make your intercourse better!!! Honestly, there are a lot of things you can do to make this guy feel way much better and that he pleases you as no one has ever done before.
Just remember that communication is essential when dealing with this situations. And remember that good things come in small pieces, like channel #5 and even his penis!
2007-01-13 04:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 inches is below average, but it's not anything to be ashamed about. As long as he knows what he's doing, and knows how to use what he has. If he's really interested in pleasing you and making you orgasm, then you can have a very fulfilling sex life. You just need to make sure you spend enough time in foreplay. Especially with oral. If you climax 2 to 3 times during foreplay, then who cares if you climax from intercourse? Plus, if you've climaxed that many times you're more likely to climax again.
There are things you can do. My fiance was average when we met, and we bought a pump just to play around with, and it's helped him. He's alot bigger than he was. Once you stop using it regularly, he'll go back to his normal size, but if you keep using he'll keep the size and get bigger. It's really amazed me, and they aren't all that expensive.
Honestly, though, as long as he is focussed on pleasing you, and pleases you during foreplay, you guys will be fine. Don't focus on it though, cuz then he will. Just enjoy being with each other. Encourage him, and tell him how much he pleases you. It will help with his confidence.
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2007-01-13 12:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, 4 is small, and there is nothing he can do to change that. What I have to suggest is a Vibrator/Dildo. He can pleasure you before sex with this and get you "ready." That may help. I'm perfectly serious. They can be found at adult stores, or you can check on the web. But.........first you both have to have an honest, open discussion about how he feels about his size. Let him know you still care. Let him know it doesn't bother you. (If it does, leave).Then after that conversation you may suggest it. But in a fun, loving way. Always support him.
2007-01-13 12:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a short person, 4 inches will be good for you, but if you are like me, almost 6 foot tall, it might not satisfy you a whole lot. He can use his tongue, hands, etc to get you satisfied, and that will work too.
There are toys out there for this issue as well. you both can play with toys together.
2007-01-13 12:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how big it is...just what he can do with it! Really, I'm being serious here...there are also other ways for him to please you. Since 90% of women cannot have orgasms without clitoral stimulation, the size isn't really an issue. Good luck and if you love him, there shouldn't be a problem. Just reassure him.
2007-01-13 12:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by GraceSlickChick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It ain't bad if you make the best of it. Sounds like he's feeling bad enough for the both of you. Just treat him (and it) like it's the best there is, and trust me, it may just work out that way.
2007-01-13 12:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dippy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 inches is fine. Tell him you don't care about the size it's the love that you want. Yes he can please you I have been with 3 guys and they were all different. One was 10in. and it hurt more than felt good so tell him he's ok and he can please you.
2007-01-13 12:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him it wont matter. size isnt everything. and if he really thinks its needs to be bigger then get him some male enhancement pills. just let him know u dont tihnk his size matters
2007-01-13 12:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had this issue, if you love this guy your sex life will be wonderful, no matter what size he is.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-13 12:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's quite small but you'll never know how much he can or can't please you until you try. Try really good foreplay and then perhaps it'll be a bit better.
2007-01-13 12:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by *Ms Manners* 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋