Boy troubles.?

Question

Okay. So my boyfriend who is absolutely amazing, is very shy. I am shy as well. Its so funny because when we see each other during the passing period before english & then during english class. I always get so excited to see him and then when I do I get so nervous and I cant say anything. He does the same thing and he tells me online that he wants to call but he's too nervous. I just want to know what I should do to make it less awkward for us and how to get over our shyness. Dumping him is out of the question by the way. Oh yeah. We're both 15. lol

Answer 1

I think you too should go do something fun. Maybe some laser tag or just go grab some pizza and a movie. The more you two start to open up the easier things will be. To top that off, I think you should call him. I'm sure he'll be shocked. Once you guys start talking and having fun you'll forget about being shy.....Last but not least don't be afraid to make a fool out of yourselves.

Answer 2

For starters try using the online conversations as an icebreaker. If you guys go to the same school and have a class in common, then it shouldn't be too awkward! Talk about school, classes, teachers.... You both are still young and trying to find yourselves.Don't sweat if you guys have awkward moments of silence! Your both growing and will find a way to click! I don't think Dumping him is the answer... Try talking about your families, siblings, extra curricular activities... Books, music, clothes.... There is something you guys can talk about to open the relationship!GOOD LUCK!! Hope this helped!

Answer 3

Think about what you would say to him when you are face to face. Maybe even write down a short list of questions: What have you been doing today? What sports do you like? What is your favourite colour? What is your next class? Would you like to meet me after school?

You could even practise asking the questions, so it might be easier when you see him.

Keep talking on line, knowing more about each other will help you both not to be so shy.

Answer 4

Ok is perfectly normal that you feel nervous because you are knew at this. You need to break the ice and talk to him and make the conversaton less award. I too hsve s boyfriend taht is very shy but I broke the ice and know he feels confterbla to talk to me.

Answer 5

If your already going out then whats to worry you dont have to worry about him liking you rihgt you already know he does as soon as the relationship ties the rope(gets started officially)
youll get more and more confortable gradually. Just take risks
like if you goto the mall with him like maybe hold his hand and put your head on his shouldure like dont do that but give some sort of affection to show him your ready to officially start.

Answer 6

well it would probably be a good idea if he meets your parents than he won't be so nervous to call!The only way to get over you shyness is to step into the crowd and talk to people,there is no scenes in being shy!

Answer 7

haha sounds exactly like my life
try talking to him in person before phone calls
awkward phone calls where you dont know what to say are the worst
and hang out with him AND other friends at the same time
one on one can be really awkward esp. if you're both shy

Answer 8

You sound like me and my boyfriend when we started going out 2 years ago! go out on like a date with him to the movies or out to dinner where you two could just talk...after about a month you two will be able to talk more and hopefully he will call you and you can call him too...i don't really like talking to my boyfriend online so just talk to him even if it feelse funny

Answer 9

Go to a movie, do activities with others, talk a lot on line if you can communicate better that way.....the shyness will go away.

Answer 10

you guys should come up with stuff you have in common or whats your favorite movie and stuff like that. after a while it will become less awkward for you.