I met this great girl recently. I'm 30 and just got out of a marriage a few months ago. She knows this and asked me about it on the first day that I visited her parents to take a Christmas present to. She's 22. I spent a little time with her and her family on Christmas and New Years (saw a guy with her that night). She told me she would call and write to me - she never did. I called her a few days ago and decided to ask her about the guy. She said that things didn't work out and that he's not her boyfriend. I ended up asking her out for coffee and she said that she would be happy to but when I suggested two particular days, she said that she would call me and we'd arrange something. That never happened. I visited her parents the next day since it was her father's birthday and we got along really well. We talked a lot and she brought it up first that she'd email and call me. It's been a few days now and nothing. I'm really confused. I like her. But with this situation, what should I do?
2007-01-13 02:09:35 · 9 answers · asked by richardg1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wanted to add that her parents seem to like me a lot. I called her today to ask her out on a short notice date but she declined saying that some relatives were flying in to visit. What is confusing is that we get along really great when we talk and she does seems interested. But the communication is strange! She doesn't call or write when she says she will. Talk about confusing huh? :(
2007-01-13 15:34:13 · update #1
In my little opinion
she likes you but doesnt want to date you it may be the age difference or apprehensive that you are just out of a marriage or would like to know you better. if it were me I would be normal self when visiting her parents but hold back on asking her about dating, after all you dont want to seem desperate for her. Let her make the first move she has your fone number email and knows how to contact you.
Or she is just young and likes the flirting game
2007-01-13 02:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would have already picked up on the actual incontrovertible fact that you've romantic pastime in her and is basically making use of you for the interest because her vanity needs the develop after the present breakup. Or she heavily isn't particular about how she feels. She's probable not somewhat waiting to be in a relationship, and he or she would favor to spare you from being the rebound guy because she does have a friendship with you which ones skill something to her today, and is terrified of jeopardizing that.
2016-12-02 05:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by schebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she does not want to hurt your feelings by telling you no.Some people are that way she is probably a really sweet girl but just does not know how to decline the offer for fear of losing a friendship.So go ask someone else out.Good Luck
2007-01-13 02:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the age difference is ok with me...older men with younger girls at least 10yrs or less is ok...but anyways..she sounds maybe hard to get..or maybe forgetful...but i guess she does have feelings for u...the communication thing is a bit ..well,..not working..phone call and email wise but u guys sound as though u talk in person to each other well..try and keep it that way and to much on the fone and email..maybe fix a date today for today (ask her in advance though if she has anything to do for that date waaaaaaay b4) gd luck!!
2007-01-13 02:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by prettypebbles_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She a child, not ready to see someone that gets along with her parents and why would you want to see a friends child anyway, maybe you should grow up..
2007-01-13 02:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she is too young..not ready for the steady....i would keep it moving..i'm 29 and my wife is 34...get an older woman..skip all the games.try it you'll love it
2007-01-13 02:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing hard to get. I would move a bit more slowly. If she thinks she has played TOO hard to get, and you don't respond, she will realize that she will have to play less hard to get if she wants somethign from you.
2007-01-13 02:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by suzy q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just forgets :)) i mean you should ask her why she doesn't call you if she says she will... it's not unpolite to ask this so... i think you can ask her... and good luck... %%-
2007-01-13 02:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Flavia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her
2007-01-13 02:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by jaydow13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋