Me and this girl were going out for a year and two months, then we split up because we were arguing a lot etc etc...
She went out with this other guy and then they broke up... just after they broke up we ended up sleeping together. Probably not the best idea but we did.
I am still very much in love with her, even though we broke up a few months ago. Am i wrong to want her back? What should i do about this?
We are still really good friends.
2007-01-13 00:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by dave_t101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to stop seeing her..she is not for you..its going to be hard but be strong..you deserve better than that tramp.
2007-01-13 01:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you and this girl split up in the first place? Has anything changed in reality? If not you would both be wasting your time getting back together.
If however you really think things would be different between you now then you really need to tell this girl how you feel. Only then will you know for sure how she feels about you now. If she feels the same have a good chat about previous problems and how to avoid them this time around. If she feels very differently to you, just move on. Easier said than done I know, but you will ruin a chance of even friendship if you pursue her when she does not want it.
2007-01-13 08:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep it friends for the time being you are currently on the rebound and secks will be good but not fulfilling.
If you broke up, there was a good reason, try to wean yourself off her and indulge in other things.
You will find that she may be a very nice person but just not for you. Or indeed the opposite may be the case.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 12:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by The Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you arguing about? you have to Analise why you are arguing. are they pointless arguments. can they be sorted or are you spending too much time with each other. these questions you must ask each other when you have a talk. it sounds to be you are spending too much time with each other. or you could ask yourself why did this girl break up with the other guy. who starts the arguments. lots of questions you need to ask yourself and her. if you do get back with each other take things slow. just see each once or twice a week and stick to that. when you start to go out with her, treat it like a first date. don't jump into bed straight away. spend time for a while doing something fun. in other words slowly get back together. when i went back to my boyfriend (now my husband) we just met for coffee, no kissing or nothing. the second time we just kiss and cuddle. good luck!!
just like to add. worth also thinking about this point. i would ask yourself this. you are in love with her but is she so in love with you after all she did go out with another guy after spliting with you.
good luck!
2007-01-13 08:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at what you were arguing about!
If it's something you both can resolve ...... get back with her
If you think you would be unable to esablish a relationship without the arguing.......... you need to move on!
Good Luck
2007-01-13 08:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Chew 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think she is the one you always wanna end up with, thats why you keep trying...but you got to ask yourself , does she worth it?
if you keep trying and failed to develop a relationship again than it simply shows you are wasting your time....she maybe not into you and using you as an outlet only....you got to talk to her as that is the only way you could find out what she feels for you.
goodluck on this.
2007-01-13 08:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all your not friends you can never be friends. second of all if you feel that way tell her at least you will know. ps if you get back together learn to talk.
2007-01-13 08:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe you should try seeing other people, i.e dating. However you can remain friends - it may just help you decide.
2007-01-13 08:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with her and see where it leads, good luck
2007-01-16 09:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋