i am so so so upset i cant explain. i have been with my bf for 2 yrs and it has come to the end but i cant cope atall. i was truely truely deeply in love with him and he ended things a few weeks ago, which was right becos things changed between us, but i cant bare the thought of him being happy and in love with some one else, or having another girl in his bed. he bought his new house 3 weeks ago with his mate and i know how much fun hes gona have without me, but i cant sleep or anything. he doesnt ring or txt and the only time he does is when he wants something. i went round to see him the other day stupidly and he just used me for sex. i am so heartbroken tho cos he treated me like a princess before we started going down hill and nw all i can think of is this is gona b some other girl he treats this way, and she will think how lucky she is to have him. i have no1 now and i hate bein single. i get alot of offers and stares when im out but not off decent guys, i dont seem to meet any1
2007-01-12 22:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nice when im out, i do get chatted up n that but not from any1 im interested in and i hate bein single, i no it sounds pathetic but i do. i just wana b with my bf how it used to b. i had a miscarriage 2 months ago and he didnt support me wen i was pregnant and i really lost alot of respect for him and things havent been the same since. i am so heartbroken tho, i dont wana get over him cos i love him but i know i have to. he was perfect tho and i cant believe im never goin to be with him again. i just dont know wat the heck to do.
2007-01-12 22:58:28 · update #1
Thats because, you are thinking with your "HEART" and NOT your "HEAD" ! The guy used you for sex, and he "BAILED OUT" on you when you needed him the most ! You're emotionally upset, and he used it to manipulate you, you are begging for another let down ! Just take it slow, things are ment to happen for a reason, I'm sorry to hear about your miscarrage but, it's better than having a child with an irresponsible person, You deserve better than that, YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT ! Time heals ALL, My money says that you'll end up with a better person in life as a partner. When the sh-t hits the fan, you want someone that will stand with you, not run away, this guy is definately a "Flight Risk" !
2007-01-12 23:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what I am saying here may not be what u want to here, but here it goes...things look bad for you right now but they will get better... there are alot of men out here that are looking for the same things you are.... it will just take time to get over the feelings of being on yer own...instead of thinking of how he will be happy go and do things that will make you happy first.....take a vacation and enjoy the free time away.... sooner or later you will meet the right person for you.....just dont expect alot all at once because it may back fire in the end......
2007-01-12 23:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by truckindad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 02:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by wichern 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its real hard to get over someone you love im in your position and i feel for you cos i know how you feeling its like the end of the world.i wish i could give you the answers your looking for but im searching for them myself,i wish you all the best of luck babes x
2007-01-12 23:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time to be on ur own & sort out ur feelings, even if it takes 6 - 12 mnths. then take things slowly & don't rush to go out with just anyone. it will happen when it's meant to. hard to wait i know but well worth it.
2007-01-12 23:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by asdajohnlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space dont go when he wants a booty call you dont know what you have till its gone trust me
2007-01-12 23:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have patienceyour time is about to come
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