Thats my older sister who is due to get married this year and has no clue that her fiance cant stand her and just wants one thing. He went to the pub with my fiance and told him that. ( checked and he was sober). My fiance told me that he doesnt want me to say anything because it would get him involved and he wants nothing to do with it.... What would you do?
2007-01-12 22:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by fi_beans90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would tell my sister that her man was overheard at some pub talking bad about her and I'd tell her what he said. I'd also inform her that he wasn't drinking and was sober.
As for her man, let him think someone was there that knew you and really did overhear him. Keep you fiance's name out of it.
2007-01-13 01:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already your brother-in-law then it is your duty to advise your sister of the situation. Think of how she will feel to know that you already had been given the heads up and didn't tell her. She will feel equally betrayed by both you and him. It is highly possible that the "Brother-In-Law" was just trying to boost his ego in front of your fiance' but regardless if the "Brother-In-Law" is using "YOUR" Sister for only one thing, and he doesn't even really like her, doesn't your sister deserve to be treated with respect and to be loved? Wouldn't you want your sister to tell you? Tell your fiance that if the shoe was on the other foot you would want to know. Men come and go ~ even if you are married to them. A sister is forever. In the long run she would appreciate your telling her the truth. There may be some initial fall out, but she will thank you when she finds that right someone.
2007-01-12 22:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your sister right you have an obligation to protect her from creeps like this. If your fiance doesn't understand too bad for him. Stand up and do the right thing. She will probably not believe you but you must try.What is it that he wants so bad he's willing to marry someone he can't stand to get it?
2007-01-12 22:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her anyway,geez why would you want your sister getting married to a jerk, you should tell her because the cost of divorce is sky high you will be doing her a favor by saving her that cost and to heck with your future brother-in-law, that is your sister.
2007-01-12 22:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just tell her. That guy's a prick. And you might want to think about your fiance also. If he's worried about what that prick thinks, then that just shows what kind of a pu**y your fiance is also. Why would you want to be married to someone weak like that?
2007-01-12 23:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let my sister get married and not tell her what kind of jerk she is dealing with. You owe it to your sister to let her know what's going on. Good luck
2007-01-12 22:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blood is thicker then water,family should always be first and if your boyfriend does not understand this,then you have another issue to deal with. and i would not want him as part of my family if he feels like he wants nothing to do with this,after all your sister should be part of his family and he needs to stand up for her.i would not want her to marry the jerk.
2007-01-12 23:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by liz s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for your sister he will mess up and she will see the real person she is to marry and then it will be up to her all you can do besides tell her and then it may cause alot of issues between all of you
2007-01-12 23:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im clueless, what is the one thing he wants. If its sex why does he not just go out and get it from someone else. ? Why go through with a marriage just to get sex.? That just seems stupid.
2007-01-12 23:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!!!! If it were me I would want you to tell me. I may be angry with you for a while...but in the long run its the right thing to do. Best of luck to you
2007-01-12 22:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋