is it really cheating if its one of her friends - im not a bad person but i figure on being married and faithfull for the next 40 or 50 years so on balance - what do u think ?
2007-01-12 22:33:12 · 52 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go 4 it
2007-01-12 22:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by gundaewoo 2 · 1⤊ 8⤋
hey buddy i know how you feel
marriage freaks me the hell out.
but guess what
if you cheat on ur to be wife.
you're a big a ss bastard.
no offence.
never start out a long lasting relationship with a big lie.
doesnt help much.if you cheat now, when you love her, are ready to marry her, then you're going to be faithful for the next 40 or 50 years??
agagaahahaha, did you seriously think that form of DENIAL will work.
sure f uck around with her bestfriend.and then get hell when sher best friend SNITCHES.because all best friends do.specially girlies
we sorta look out for one another.
so if you really love ur fiancee, and you're willing to give it your all
think twice about any mistake you make now.
even if the mistake has got one damn fine looking behind and great t its.
alright?
all men feel like flings before marriage.
oh my god, one
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for the rest of my life? geez!
well..buddy, you're getting married, whatchya expecting.
women think the same, but we rarely cheat SO soon.im sure when im getting married i'm going to find every single tom dick and harry attractive.but will i bed one before my wedding.
doubt it.
think.with your head.
and not with your equipment.
GOOD LUCK
Rave.
p.s try a good shag in the loo!
2007-01-12 22:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be getting married if you're still thinking of doing these things. How would you feel if your wife just had a quick one last fling with one of your friends??? I'm sure you wouldn't mind!
Don't do it because the truth always comes out in the end, and especially at a time you don't want it to!!! (wedding day) Beware!!
2007-01-12 22:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this is terrible. Why are you getting married? If you are thinking about giving up your "one last fling" and it is bugging you that much than you need to re-evaluate this. I got divorced because my ex-husband wanted to go have his fun and come home and tell me about it and then he would want me to go have fun. This will extremely hurt your relationship and do you want this from the begginning? I am telling you have respect for your lady and do to her how you want done to you!!!! Never, Never Never lose respect, appreciation, or take each other for granted because I am telling you from experience it is not a good way to go. If you think about another women in the way you are my question to you is how much do you really love her? My husband now treats me like a princess and I know he would never think of doing this to me. He may look at another woman but I am his main focus. and that is the way I like it Please don't hurt your precous wife to be!!!! Who care about her hot friend. Use her in your bedroom to talk dirty with your new wife, if she is like that. If not then use your imagination. All girls have the same tools and a orgasim is a orgasim. Hope this helps
2007-01-13 01:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by larippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you do that your wife would find out sooner or late. You will lose your wife and her best friend forever. If she finds out years later after you have kids and all, it will be more complicated with divorce, losing a lot of money. Best thing to do, if you really love your wife, marry her and do nothing to her best friend. If you still wanna have a fling with her then ask yourself if you really love your fiance. If you truly love her you wouldn't think of going through cheating her.
2007-01-12 22:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Azn Guy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No How would you like if your future wife wanted a last fling and will you want to cheat after you are married.
2007-01-12 23:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by The Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. If her best friend has never OFFERED or SUGGESTED anything like that to you, and she is your wife-to-be's best friend, whe will rat you out as soon as you offer doing that with her.
1. find a hooker
2. pick some chick up in another city for a night
3. Forget about it and shag someone at the wedding reception. (Chicks always dig a guy in a tux especially afer a few drinks)
2007-01-12 23:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Neo Tarantula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what is going to happen: you hit on the best friend, she says no and tells your fiancee and you have no fling and no wedding either. Just let the best friend remain a fantasy and some day you'll be glad you did. I know.
2007-01-12 23:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
don't do it.
u'll only regret it 4 the next 40/50 years!
2007-01-12 22:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a scumbag ratbag...you dont deserve to be married...I hope your soon to be wife cheats on you with your friend/brother/dad..all at the same time.
2007-01-13 00:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it, you will ruin your wife's life. Do it and break off the engagement, or don't do it and get married forever, staying 100% faithful all the while.
2007-01-12 22:36:54 · answer #11 · answered by Amy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋