I am totally in love with one of my families friend's son's who lives in Italy(he is Italian), we have known each other since I can remember and my parent's have sent me to stay with his family every summer in Italy since I was 12, and when I go there all me and him do is hang out together(and hook up). He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and I love him, I have no clue what to do. He keeps saying I should just move to Italy and stay with him, but I don't know if I should since I am in my first year of college, but we love each other so much I am really thinking about it.
Questions:
-Should I move to Italy and stay with him ?
-Do long distance relationships ever work ?
Other Details:
-I am 18, he is 19
-I see him every summer and sometimes during the holidays
-I talk to him all the time on the phone and computer
-I am Italian/German/French(My mother is from France, My Grandmother is from Italy, and my Dad is German/Italian from America)
2007-01-12 21:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by Natasha S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not go to college in Italy? Can you pick up the language? This sounds like a wonderful relationship that has grown over a long period of time. On the other hand, you could finish your schooling here and then move to Italy . .. it must be wonderful knowing you will be spending the summer with him. 4 years goes fast.
2007-01-12 22:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance can work if your honest with each other, and have a time table as to when and whom will move. But to move to another country, even if you have already been many times, for a guy, at your age, I say don't do it. Finish school, and if the you still feel the same way after you get out, then try, At 18 people rush things without thinking it through.
2007-01-12 22:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,i did it..i left everything behind me and moved to Germany...and there is no regrets about that,i found my right place on this planet,without trying you will never find out where is yours....
And love is the most wonderful thing what could happen with you,thats 4 sure!!!
Best wishes :O)
2007-01-12 22:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by SpiritOfTheSea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats... your in love.
You are young. I'd say finish college first, then decide.
If you just think of it like he was in another state it may help. By the sounds of it you see each other quiet a bit. Just keep talking.
Good luck!
2007-01-12 22:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Blackdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young for such serious step. Sometimes long distance relations work, and sometimes the prince turns into a frog. Give yourself time to meet other people, then decide.
2007-01-12 22:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really love him and he really loves u and u guys wanna be together then u should move. Long distance relationships doesn't always work.
2007-01-12 22:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move with him relationship at distance don\'t work
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