2007-01-12 20:40:55 · 9 answers · asked by Ola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's okay to spend your money on a girl you like, just don't go overboard. Enticing with money shows insecurity. You can't get the quality of relationship you are seeking with money. Be yourself instead. Show your sense of humor, treat her like a treasure, let her be herself, be patient, no pressure, listen, communicate, let her come to know you underneath the money, allow yourself to really come to know her too, do things together, find things you have in common to do together. Then determine whether or not there is something more there. Money can't buy love. Love can happen whether or not there's money. Money is just a nice added bonus to an already good relationship.
2007-01-12 20:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, don't entice her with money and material things unless it's like a birthday or something special. Take her out to taco bell or something and see if she gets mad. And if she does, then she wants something classier which involves money. And if she doesnt, then you know she doesnt care for such things. That would show that she's just happy to be w/ you. Now that shows some seriuos love. =)
2007-01-13 04:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gibe her nice gifts at Christmas and her birthday, don't get her things all the time, and make sure their reasonably priced. Time is the only way you will truly know her and see if she's a gold digger, seriously don't go overboard with expensive jewelry but give nice gifts when it is appropriate and watch how she acts.
2007-01-13 04:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, if she spends time with you just because she likes the company, if she would drop everything to help you in a time of true need. If you feel amazing together...You should know without second guessing
2007-01-13 04:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by S W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy take her out for a walk in the park or a sports venue. It's simple and it will reveal if she is a gold digger or not. If she cares about you then she won't care where you take her or what you give her.
2007-01-13 04:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Blue_Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u luv her,trust me she lus u back because real love is never platonic but if u still wanna be sure,just look into her eyes and say i luv u,then all u can do is hope she'll say she luvs u too
2007-01-13 04:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make as if u r a pauper just pretend it. tell her that u hv only ur heart to give her n nothing. see her reaction
2007-01-13 04:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your gf, then let her pay for the next time you go out, ask her to buy you something cute, watch her reaction, believe me... you will see it from then.
2007-01-13 04:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by chd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel this
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2007-01-13 04:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋