ive caught ma mann jackin off behind ma back he says its not that i dont turn him on but he just loves pus*y is there sumthin wrong ? or r u all like that ? wut should i do ? its not like i dunt give it 2 him on a very regular bases . n i told him that huim doin it makes me uncomfortable but he jus does it behind my bak n says he didnt ? im 21 n hes 24 .n.e advise ? help !
2007-01-12 20:39:01 · 27 answers · asked by bandolera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do go down on him .... he does this shi* wen i go out or wen im asleep
2007-01-12 20:46:52 · update #1
we all do and he probably just cant wait to do you again! that's all he doesn't want to make you hump him all day long why don't you watch him? once you grow up a Lil you wont be so "uncomfortable"
with a man.. it will be OK.. don't hate him for being him self . so you caught this one you got lucky! next time it might not be so easy lol have fun relax..Good Luck!
2007-01-12 20:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's quite normal. Yes, we all still do that. Being married or taken doesn't change that. It doesn't matter how often you give it to him, he's still gonna peel some chilis. What you have to realize is that sometimes we want a quick fix without having to worry about how well we perform or whether or not we're gonna let someone down. While I'm sure you don't expect earth-shattering lovemaking each and every time out, as men we feel the pressure to try every time. A pressure that doesn't exist when we're alone. At least he's not cheating on you!
2007-01-13 04:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question: Every guy masturbates even if they have a girlfriend or not.
Are you going to be there for him 24/7? Every single minute, every single second that he's feeling horny? The answer is no. So when you're not there and he has to release sexual tension ... he masturbates. Not only does he do it, but billions of people do it as well, girlfriend or not. You should try it to. :)
That being said ... His excuse wasn't a very good one. "I just love pussy?" Now that I would be worried about. Talk to him about it.
2007-01-13 04:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby_Bomberman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 47 and the oldlady is 48 some nights it just easier that way but shes jacking me off been known to wake me up to do it.and in the shower every morning since I was 13
2007-01-13 04:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by mudduck754 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it at all. I have done it in all my relationships and probably always will. It is a way for us to pleasure ourselves without having to worry about pleasuring our partners as well, call it private times. Also my partner is not always there when I am feeling horny and I may not feel horny later so it's jack-off time. I have known my partner to pleasure herself when i am not there. I used to do it when my partner was around because I could go longer when we were making love.
2007-01-13 04:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men are horny critters, and sometimes the pressure needs to be relieved. You aren't always there, or in the mood, so a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do. Don't take it personally. Actually, be thankful that he's not cheating on you. Some guys relieve the pressure that way.
2007-01-13 04:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by navig8r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything is fine with your story except that his excuse was "he just loves pus*y." That's kind of weird. If he just love pus*y, wouldn't he avail himself of yours?
He probably meant to say, "I just love porn." That's different.
Personally, I have no need of porn when I'm getting the real thing regularly. I might if there is a dry spell or something.
2007-01-13 04:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Montel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes hor*y for you, but it could also mean that theres something wrong in your relationship that he doesent know how to express but by letting go a load, I mean sort of the same thing: expression... jer*ing off right?? my advice is let him do it cause its probably an unresolvable problem.
2007-01-13 05:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a man. There is nothing wrong with you. You and your husband could have the most amazing sex life and he will still feel the need to "do the deed" from time to time. It is just natural.
2007-01-13 04:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Shauny B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 21 my gf is 19 and I still masturbate even though I have her. Normal guys always will, its no real reason. I was watching some porn today, so i decided to do it, I could have had sex, but she was kinda busy, so I did it. Nothing wrong with it. Get over yourself.
2007-01-13 04:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋