About 4 years ago when I was seeing someone, this sweet guy used to chase me and wanted to be with me. I hung out with him as a friend but made it clear I didn't want more as I loved my partner then.
It took me a long time to get over the other man when we broke up, but now I am and it's been a couple of years, in which time I've dated another guy I met through the sweet one. When Mr. sweet knew I was with his friend, he acted a bit jealous and told his friend he was a very lucky man, but Mr. Sweet was, and still is, seeing a girl who lives about 100 miles away, they seem to be long term even if they live so far apart.
When I see him he always kisses my cheek, comments on how I'm dressed (nicely) and even used to ask how his friend treated me (not very well, and we are no longer together).
But I don't know if I even have a chance with him anymore, though I have really started to like him a lot. I'm also pregnant by his 'friend', which doesn't help! Should I tell him how I feel?
2007-01-12 20:26:00 · 5 answers · asked by Susier 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thankyou...I thought it was probably a bad idea and I missed my chance years ago. I hardly ever see him though so it should just fade out I guess...this is my problem, not his.
2007-01-12 20:44:12 · update #1
It would be very selfish of you to do so. You are pregnant and its by his friend plus he has a girlfriend. Keep him as a very good friend and who knows what can happen i n the future in the mean time enjoy the support you get from him and consider yourself lucky to have such a good friend
2007-01-12 20:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how close your friendship is right now. Is there someone close to him you can ask to find out if his other relationship is serious? To be honest, whether it is or not he has probably moved on from his feelings he had before. If you two have a close friendship it shouldn't hurt it if you are honest with him about your feelings. Just remember, when you're pregnant all kinds of crazy hormones are swirling so first take a step back and evaluate your situation. Are you just wanting a "dad" for your child who you know will be good or are you truly attracted to this guy? Don't take just anyone or it willl probably be an unhappy situation in the long run.
2007-01-12 20:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
Just worry and concentrate on the new life you are about to begin.
A chilld is a huge responsibility and you need friends around you for support.Good friends are hard to come buy.thats valuable!
Stay friends. The feeling will eventually pass and you will be glad you never acted.
All actions have consequences.negative or positive?
2007-01-12 20:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by davy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u had ur chance u didn’t used it then what you want now while your already carrying with someone. Let him lead his own life , Do be so selfish …
2007-01-12 20:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Amit G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably. n
2007-01-12 20:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋