well last night it took me ages to fall asleep cause i was just so upset that im not seeing my bf today cause of hes A level exams and he eneds to do revsion.well i woke up at 8 this morning and couldnt get back to sleep,i ended up crying myself to sleep fr another 20 min than i woke up again.now i tryed going back to sleep and i cant.all i could do is ring my bf later today for 20 min.i cnats ee him next week cause he has a inportant physics exam and chemistry to. how can i cheer myself up,i tryed watching flim,listing to music and it just made things worst.
2007-01-12 20:24:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im seeing my m8 later tonight for a meal.everytime i lye on my bed i think whern he use to be there with lyeing next to me.
2007-01-12 20:31:48 · update #1
If it makes you feel any better, he's probably tucked up in bed right now with a big breasted blonde.
2007-01-12 22:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have issues. A bf is a part of your life not your life. You need to reconnect with the world. This life you have as you can see is not healthy. It is great you can respect his needs for time for exams etc but you are not going to cope when he moves on from this stage to the working stage. It seems you may both be so tied up with one another that the rest of the world has been shut out. Reconnect, call up a friend go for a coffee or something
2007-01-12 20:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself that your boyfriend is not seeing you because he has exams not because he has a fatal disease.
Focusing all your attention on your boyfriend i.e. neediness is unattractive and a sure-fire turn off guaranteed to cause permanent absence in both men and women.
You need to focus your attention elsewhere such as your own studies, your appearance, shopping, local travel, Internet, family, entertainment, helping others, fitness, competitions, media, long range plans, travel, business, friends, goals, hopes & wishes, socializing, groups, and solitude.
If you are unwilling or unable to do this, you need to seek professional help from a licenced psychologist, because your level of distress over this is not within the normal range.
2007-01-12 20:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Distractions. Lots of distractions. Go shopping for you, read a goooood book, put together a puzzle, hang out with your friends and not talk about your boyfriend. you might be watching the wrong kinds of film and listening to the wrong kinds of music. Watch a comedy.
2007-01-12 20:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eidolon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about the time after he has completed his exams, and the good times that you will spend together. Plan things that you can do after, focus on that.
But also spend time with friends, keep busy and develop interests that don't include your boyfriend and I am sure you will be ok,
Stay strong, follow your dreams
Good luck
2007-01-12 22:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, think to yourself: "is this what my boyfriend would want me to do?"
would you feel comfortable telling him that you cried and cried because he had exams and couldn't see you? I doubt it!
For both his sake and yours, you need to find other things that make you happy. Try doing something you've never done before, and do it WITHOUT HIM! Do things to get your confidence up!
you will learn that guys can be icing on the cake, but the "cake" is all the things in your life that make you who you are.
2007-01-12 20:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well his exams are more important than relationships. Sorry to say, im a university student and i always put my studies first before relationships. Exam results stay with you all your life, partners don't always, therefore they are less important.
You have to accept that its important to him, and its not like you've broken up with him, so no need to worry.
2007-01-13 00:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaaaaaa Grow up
2007-01-12 20:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Belinda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure as soon as his exam are over you will see him. He needs to do exams to help him get a job in the future.
2007-01-12 20:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by The Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends, it's not the end of the world!
2007-01-12 20:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋