My best friend's girlfriend recently broke up with him. When they had this brief relationship, She told me that she liked when she was with him. I always had a tendency to get involved with girls that were unavailable. She is single now and she said it's best that we remain friends before any more relationships get screwed up between my best friend and I. I think about her a lot sometimes, but now I don't know if she feels the same way. What do you make of this?
2007-01-12 19:56:24 · 21 answers · asked by J_Lin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it were me, I would not do it .n
2007-01-12 20:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur best friend has broken up with his gf, then there must b some reason.do know that reason and then judge sm thing. and its not a good thing to run after unavailable girls, when choosing life partner its imp to know eachother, understand eachother:if unavailibity is the only reason-u r thinking about her then u should not get into this relation now and never. this will again hurt her and cause a breakup. bt if u really love her u should go ahead with this relation, bt i would suggest u to give her some time so that she can come over from her breakup.
2007-01-13 04:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by StylishT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hot or not u cant jack ur bro...
Honor and Respect well take you a long way
if u care at all about ur friendship... u have 2 be able to chose one or the other. are u ready 2 make that choice? is it worth it?
U can't have both - and if u do - u don't have a real friend.. Oh yeah and expect Karma to bite you back...Hard!
There are 2 many hot girls out there & good friend are hard to come by...
Stay true to ur heart
Peace out Playa
2007-01-13 04:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend have allot in common appearantly.
I think you need to talk to your best friend about this situation, if you start anything between you and that girl your friend could feel mighty threatened. Then again, maybe you should ask him the reason why they broke up in the first place.
However, If you think that this relationship has any future at all, then go for it.
still... it is your best friends ex.
2007-01-13 04:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Eidolon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said no accept that and her wisdom that should the two of you get together at this stage their would be a bit of a mess between you all. Should you two get together there is the strong possibility that you would loose your male friend and maybe even her later on should the relationship not work. Give it time, if it is meant to be it is meant to be but don't be a rebound you will only get hurt
2007-01-13 04:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's an unwritten rule that you should know, obvously she does....
NEVER DATE A FRIEND'S EX!! like another answer on here
Bro's before Hoe's. Is a girl that doesn't sound that interested in you worth breaking up your relationship with your best friend? Think about it...
2007-01-13 04:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said it like it is. Don't try to read between the lines. You really should steer clear of her and make "being your best friend's best friend" one of your top priorities.
2007-01-13 04:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fooling yourself if you think you can be a best friend to anyone, you have no best friends, because you are not able to be one. Grow some balls, be somebody.
2007-01-13 04:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by luckychicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truely your best friend, then ask him how he feels about this, and respect his wishes. Good friends are really hard to find, if you don't want to ask him what are his wishes to this, and you don't want to ruin your friendship, then stop thinking of her.
2007-01-13 04:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to say best friend with your mate then I would leave thing alone.
2007-01-13 04:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away from a girl like her cuz you will get betrayed don't get a girl that is a traitor i know a girl thats just like her don't be her friend dawg
2007-01-13 04:07:26 · answer #11 · answered by STEALTH NINJA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋