I have a really good friend, shes an awesome girl and i love hanging out with her, she is pretty too, but i don't have feelings for her romantically. I found out from another friend that she has feelings for me and thinks theres a "spark". Whats worse is, the girl i am seeing is one of her close friends, and says she feels bad because she doesnt want to hurt her friend, so is having second thoughts about our relationship. my friend who i'm not attracted to said to the girl i'm seeing that she'd be hurt if anything happend between us. what should i do?
2007-01-12 19:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by aussieguyincanada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats kind of crazy , but since the girl who you're not attracted to never actually confronted you about her feelings than I guess you don't have to do a thing.
Maybe it's not even true ! ;) who knows.
But if one day she confronts you than just let her know what your real feelings are and that being friends is the only thing you had in mind.
She should understand.
On the other hand - your girl - she seems like she doesn't really know what she's doing there. You're not her real love if she worries about what other people think about your relationship and lets them invide your privacy.
So I'd say : don't do anything - just wait .............
Oh , and don't let no one decide for you on what ( who ) you really want.
2007-01-12 19:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off the other girl would probably be happy if you guys broke it off. If your girl is overthinking your relationship just because of a friend then you guys probably are not that serious. Be honest and talk about it with both of them and then take it from there.
2007-01-13 03:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dnt like her then dnt force urself 2 it.....try talkin 2 her and tell her that if u go into a relationship u might make thingz worse between u....if she rilli llikes u then she'll understand
2007-01-13 04:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her clearly that about your feeling towards her and tell her that you want to continue to be friends all through your life.
2007-01-13 03:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just skr ew her and be dun with it. She will love u in the afternoon.
2007-01-13 03:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are the only guy that wouldnt do that, are u ga
2007-01-13 03:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by ~YuM yUm LoLipOpS~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋