that the ex he had before he just used her for sex because she was easy, but never got attached to her, loved her, or thought she was attractive. He even felt emberrased to be seen with her and only took her out once to the movies
yet a couple of weeks before or after he started going out with you, one of her (the ex) friends tells him that she says hi and he goes to look for her myspace to message her to say hi and congratulate her on getting married and being pregnant, but never messages her again.
What would you think? Do you think he ever cared about her?
2007-01-12 19:31:44 · 23 answers · asked by mayra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is that im married to him now and he says im the first girl or person besides family he has ever loved
2007-01-12 19:41:54 · update #1
theres always a connection between two people after being intimate.
if there wasnt your boyfreind would have to be an incredibly cold soul.
That shows that he did respect her and he was letting go.
Some flings are just sex but you cant tell me there isnt a feeling that lingers after.
Guys act like they could care less.WEe act tough,.
Your is good shape.just dont fall to fast for him.
sounds like he is a slow mover.
My two cvents? what do I know?
2007-01-12 19:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by davy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy is a liar, a jerk, a kiss-***, a whore, and well, the list could go on and on.
I think he never cared about anything other than her body, and is incapable of change. His current girlfriend should be ashamed to be with him.
He's not worthy of any THING.
Oh, wooo. You're married to it.
In that case, all I can say is: Good luck.
2007-01-12 19:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he cared for her in the way that he loved her but I mean when you are intimate with someone there must be some kind of feeling there don't you think. About him messaging her he was probably just trying to make you jealous don't think anything of it. If ur boyfriend is making you feel insecure I think you should have a talk with him.
2007-01-12 19:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds WAY to familiar. I was used and abused myself believe me that is so wrong and if he used his ex for sex the chances are very high of him doing it to you. Men that are this type use all women. Thankfully not all men are asses.
2007-01-12 20:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur boyfrnd has got fascination for galz around him. i dunno whether he liked his ex or not, but this is a nasty way to ditch the present gf.
so, please be strict him and to his bitching activities. if he leaves this nonsense. dat means he loavs ur or else, he is also seeing u as a commodity.
get strict with him..i know it hurts a gal to listen dat his bf had physical with his ex. i would have sliced both of them..
anywayz, all the best. i know, u people will get along soon.
2007-01-12 19:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better evaluate if this guy is for real. He seems to have issues with women. He says one thing but does another thing.
2007-01-12 19:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Gyle from Valenzuela City, Phil. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he cares for her as little as he cares for you.
Think about it, if he could say all those things about his last girlfriend, just imagine what he'll say to the next one about you.
2007-01-12 19:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, see the signs first. Ask him if he wants to go to the movies, if he refuses a couple times, you should dump his ***. It means he only wants your puntang and nothing more. Be smart.
2007-01-12 19:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i hate to tell you this but i really do think that he did care about her.come on if he didn't then he would have never took the time to look for her on myspace or even better he would have never even had the thought in his mind to look for her.so obviously he did care about her.guys tell girls stuff like that to make us think that they neveer had feelings for other girls to make us feel like we are special to have them care about us.
2007-01-12 19:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel T 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably not. Chances are he still doesn't. I would make sure it happened before i even worried about it. But if it did, i still probably still wouldn't be worried.
2007-01-12 19:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by jason0860 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋