ok ive just move into an apartment with my friend and her boyfriend, one night me and the boyfriend we stayed up watching dvd's and im not sure how it happened but we ended up kissing, the next morning when my friend went to work, he came into my room and we ended up having sex, it was great!! thought it might have been a once off but we steal kisses whenever we can and last night we ended up having sex again while my friend was asleep in bed. I cant stop myself, i want to stop but dont know how, dont say just stop cause that wont work i cant, i want him even as im typing about him right now im getting so ******* horny. I think im addicted to him, help me somebody please, what do i do
2007-01-12 19:24:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's the naughty act of what your doing that makes it addicting to you.. I don't think that it's you wanting to hurt your friend but when you look at her, don't you see that face that has shared things with you and that face that has been there when others wouldn't... how would you feel if she found out? I can honestly say that you will be the one left and that they will work it out and you will no longer have a friend... how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and she did that to you? you would be devastated beyond words and you would hate her... you need to stop for a moment and think about what this is really worth, the cost of your friendship, the cost of yourself because this will come back to you.. you need to think about your friend and find a guy of your own... I mean, I know he is not the last man in the world... you need to look at how much damage this is gonna cause and you need to quit being selfish :) :) :)
2007-01-12 19:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u dont like your friend all that much. otherwise you would have been able to say no.
I would say that if you want him, then take him and come clean to your friend. so at least she can find an honest partner.
And as for the 2 of you go.. good luck... Would you go out with a guy that you know first hand cheats on his existing partner???
sex and cheating are like pringles. once you pop you cant stop... until you get sick of the same old pringle taste and decide to put the pringles in the cupboard and have doritos for a while. But who knows... you could get sick of doritos just as easily.. so whats next.
I hope you catch my drift...
good luck
2007-01-12 19:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by MOZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you value this friendship? Clearly the boyfriend doesn't, because he would have never put the moves on you like that, attraction or otherwise. If you really care about your friend, end this immediately and MOVE OUT! If you really wanna be brave, tell her what happened and apologize to her...I think she needs to know what a scumbag her boyfriend is!
2007-01-12 19:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i would hate to be your friend. that is a horrible thing to be doing to your friend, and to yourself. no one can win from this situation - but think how horrible it would be if you got pregnant or an std in this situation. or if your friend caught you and her boy.
you should leave. you should move out and remove yourself from the temptation if you don't think you can just stop. and truthfully, you should probably tell your friend what happened. you will lose her friendship, and probably also lose other friends. but better that she know what sort of person she is living with now and have the chance to move on herself than remain in ignorance.
put yourself in her shoes. what you are doing is just terrible. and while i am sure you are aware of it to some extent, i am guessing you have not really thought about the reality of it all.
2007-01-12 19:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you sound kinda like how I used to be. Just keep it on the low and chances are he and your roomate will split up sooner or later and then you can have him all to yourself. Just ask yourself if you think he will ever be toally monogamous (you might not even care about that) but just be careful and try not to get caught, roomie fights can be nasty. If it's simply hormones you could go make a trip to your local adult store and buy a power tool (i use one as my hubby doesnt put out much anymore and it's easier than cheating)
2007-01-12 19:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to move you are addicted to the rush it is exciting that its wrong you could get caught shes right in the other room been there done that your messing with fire and your gonna get burnt that's the best advice I gave all night.
2007-01-12 19:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dan B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might as well start looking for another apartment or roommate now, because this is only going to end ugly.
You are a bad friend, and your friend's boyfriend is a skunk!
It sounds as if you two deserve eachother.
2007-01-12 19:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope she wasn't a good friend because that friendship is going straight out the window. She'll find out because your stupid enough to keep doing it. You'll get caught, and I'm going to laugh.
2007-01-12 19:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. She doesn't need her boyfriend or a friend like you. That's nasty having someone's seconds.
And get another life while you're at it.
2007-01-12 19:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are enjoying it and both of you have to be blamed look the best way try not to be alone with him
and it sounds like you never gonna stop until she discovers
by that time you will lose her or both of them
2007-01-12 19:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by khatora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋