U DRIVE ME CRAZY OR THERES SOMETHING ABOUT U I CANT FORGET U!! WHAT DID U DO TO ME.... they always SEEM so in love when im not!! WHY IS THIS? do ALL MEN tell WOMEN that?? its not like they do it 4 sex! ive only had 2 partners and im 22
2007-01-12 19:16:18 · 19 answers · asked by SEXY CRML 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOO SPUD!!! ive dated lots!! of men. only had sex w/ 2!!
2007-01-12 19:27:29 · update #1
ALSO I AM THE ONE TO MOVE ON I HAVE NEVER BEEN DUMPED BUT ONCE
2007-01-12 19:28:35 · update #2
Well they probably do mean what they say at THAT time. The problem is that once they realize you're not "easy meat" they end up moving on because they don't want to wait. You don't need them anyways if that's the case. So that's why I think they tell you that. They KNOW you haven't been around the block and back, so the idea of being with someone lots of others haven't been with drives them crazy. It may be that the same thing they love about you, is what they can't take.
I say stick to your guns and the right one will say that to you, mean it, and stay.
2007-01-13 03:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe your incredibly hot?
At that age if you have looks and the sense that you are object of desire for the male mind.
We all sex. well the normal ones.
To give compliments are a way to soften you up. It works to because we are genuinly sincere about getting intimate.
What would you do if you really were uncontrollably attracted.
Flip the coin and be honest.
You really seem like an intelligent enough person that is willing to work in a relationship if you have only had 2 partners.
Im available.:)
Im kidding.
You know what else you could chose guys that get to serious fast, and you maybe know that.
control that you know what you want.
maybe? not to be prying.
Just giving a males view that has been hurt by falling for a girl I thought was my soul mate.
Its a scary feeling you know.
Be cool.
2007-01-13 03:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by davy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men usually have a hidden agenda, whether you realize it or not, their motives are probably not proper. I choose not to date for recreation, but rather when there is someone that I feel I could get serious with; that is someone that I like and could see having a future with. If things don't progress accordingly I will end the dating.
Another good rule is not to flirt; it just makes the guys think they may have a chance of dating you, also be firm, I can't stress this enough, make it clear that you are NOT INTERESTED.
If they continue, make it clear that their advances are not welcome and if they continue you will be left with no choice but to take legal action.
Another thing that has helped me is wearing a wedding band that i got at walmart for $10--- I really hope you take this advise to heart, you can really avoid a lot of unnecessary annoyances.
2007-01-13 19:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe that's just how they're feeling at the time. Unfortunately, feelings can change or fade.
For that matter, the guys you attract are probably seeing you as unavailable and are attracted to that. It's sad, but a lot of men get into that syndrome.
2007-01-13 03:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man that has told a woman that before, but I meant it. However a lot of guys don't mean it and do it because they hope to get in your pants, even though you apparently have your guard up but they think that may lower the shields. However the ones that do mean it probably say it because they may love you.
2007-01-13 03:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AM THINKING THAT YOU MUST HAVE A BEAUTIFUL PERSAUNA ABOUT YOU. It could also say that your a sucessful and pretty person all around. If you made a impression on these men you made their day just by being with them.No not all men says that ,yet if they have been with that person long enough then they may feel that way.
2007-01-13 03:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by carrie p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me honey, they do it for sex. Just because you didn't give it to them does not mean that they didn't want it. It is the easiest thing in the world to find a guy to have sex with. There are so many girls out there who fall for this crap ( I have too in the past) that they try it out to see if they can get lucky. Glad that you are smarter than that.
2007-01-13 03:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You must be very attractive to them, and they don't want to lose an attractive partner.
Basically, basically, when faced with loss, they will beg, grovel, and unintentionally lie. I'm sure it was for sex. Unless their inexperienced with relationships, then they really don't know what they're doing!
No, not all men do this.
2007-01-13 03:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you havent had sex with them, there is always the possibility that they are trying to tell you what they think you wanna hear. another possibility is people always want what they cant have, and when you dont show the same interest back it makes them want you even more, its the thrill of the chase.
2007-01-13 03:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by tryin to help 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋