What happened? Why is everything so intense between us? Will we ever be back together in a healthy, loving long term relationship together or not? Thank you for your insight.
2007-01-12 18:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by M45goi89 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't think I'm a psychic, and I think it would take a very powerful one to be able to answer your questions from so far away over the Internet, but I'll try to help any way I can.
Sometimes, as relationships get more mature, we start getting more "edgy". The little things that always bugged you are starting to REALLY bug you; the bigger things that you've tried to ignore are getting harder to ignore. Probably, you two should sit down and talk things out. Make sure you do more listening than talking - you want to fix things, not make them worse.
Doublecheck yourself to make sure you're not making things worse by nagging or being resentful towards him - or if he feels like you're being a martyr or manipulative, it will just push him farther away. Try to be honest with yourself - few relationships ever go wrong without both people having a hand in it. Try to schedule some "fun" time where you two will just laugh and play and be distracted and you'll remember how you felt when you were first falling in love. Ice skating, or bowling, or roller skating - something that takes physical exertion and will bring you closer together. Pick something cooperative - not competitive.
Above all else, consider counseling together.
I hope some of that helps.
2007-01-12 19:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Aeryn Whitley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The facts say there has never been a real Psychic . we just don't have Houdini any more going around proving it by exposing them as a scam. Hope you don't pay into such nonsense.Oh my mind has alluded me. I guess it must be a sign of approaching age you no the wear and tear of a life of trying to live up. I just recalled I have seen some signs of minor clairvoyance in my time but it is dismally subject to confusion and leaves people retarded if they actually become sufficient at it .And still can't transmit the dead as they are actually dead .
So find a friend with some insight into life for advise instead of getting into the phony psychic realm that is almost always useless and full of scam artists. the paranormal is really very simple although allusive and there will someday most likely be a natural way of explaining how vibrations like air in talking and mind as in hyped thinking connect us .And most hopefully someone will invent a means of eliminating their threat.So to finish my correction yes their are psychics and No they can't help.
peace out & good luck in love to you
2007-01-13 03:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are brought together to become friends and not lovers and the signals get mixed up. Each is there to comfort the other emotionally and one thing leads to another and your an item for only a while. Then bang, things started to change and you each blame the other citing both "your needs"..it's kind of like a stale mate. Unfortunately both of you afraid of making a final solid sever in this relationship is keeping you both from moving on. I see one of you moving away completely out of the area, perhaps it is you as you do long for somewhere a bit more appealing in all areas of your life.
Good luck to you and I know you will fulfill your dreams :)
2007-01-15 23:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Scojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. Something more serious is at work, and you just triggered it. Something involving a parental female figure is at work, like a mom or aunt. Also, some doubts have been going on for a little while..
You can fix it, but only if you try to get him to really set things straight and lay all the cards on the table. Some things he hasn't let out yet.
(I don't claim to be a super-good psychic like all those people on TV or books or whatever, but I believe everyone is a little psychic and that's just what my intuition tells me, call it what you will)
2007-01-13 03:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been intense for a while, you just haven't noticed it before and now its got to this stage you can help but notice it. It will work out just let him have time to chill out and go for a drive then have a proper talk about each others feelings. Heres a tip, always put the other person first in a relationship (tell that to him too) and try and add empathy to your relationship.
2007-01-13 03:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your relationship was so intense that your partner was scared away. Too much pressure and stress; everything just happened too fast. I believe you will get back together in the next couple of months, but please, take it slowly. It is only for the benefit of you both.
Many Blessings
2007-01-15 16:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by psychic_intuitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average relationship lasts 3to5 yrs then the glitter fades fast.
It is possible. If the two of you can reignite a new type of relationship.based on more realistic views of marriage.
If not then it is time to find a different mate or not.and part without any bitterness between the two of you.
2007-01-13 03:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a guy who for 10 years has offered a million dollars to any psychic who can prove they really are psychic. Nobody has claimed it yet.
I read the article today in Wired magazine:
http://www.wired.com/news/technology/0,72482-0.html?tw=wn_index_5
2007-01-13 03:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rexxie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an issue solvable by psychics...they will make it worst...instead why dun u gif it a chance that u 2 will patch up together n work towards it...its ur life...
2007-01-13 03:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've often wondered the same things, and have sadly succumbed to the reality of my mortality and its limited ability to see into the future. We all live in our own darkness, and make our own light.
2007-01-13 03:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋