ok so there are these guy groups at my school and this one group call me slut, whore, skank and alot of other things and the other day one of the guys asked me to have sex with him i kinda like him but it would propubly ruin my rep. what should i do ??????
2007-01-12 18:46:19 · 18 answers · asked by ShAnNoN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think what they call you is true then sleep with him.
2007-01-12 18:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by bruce_eel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Omg what jerks. Don't have sex with this guy whate ever you do. Not only will it ruin ur good name (guys can have sex as much as they want and they're cool but girls are just considered sluts...) but he sounds like he's all in it for the phsycial which is SO unhealthy and a sure way you're going to get hurt. Wait it out. See if he askes you on an actual date first and really get to know him. But honestly, putting off sex longer is just safer for your body and mind. I have friends who have had sex (im in highschool) and they wish they waited longer and with someone who really cares about them. Making love is a beautiful thing, I wouldn't waste it on dickweeds like the guys you described above.
summing up: Try falling in love first! Also, just don't do it with that guy. Trust me on this.
2007-01-12 18:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your rep is in tatters, if a group of guys are calling you filthy names like you said! And if you do have sex with this guy, wouldn't that just bare out that the names they call you are probably true? Come on hon, get wise, they are treating you like the local bike! They all want a ride!!!!!
2007-01-12 19:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay. C'mon! You've got to be kidding me! You're really asking this question? You really don't know what to do? Do you really wanna subject yourself to more humiliation from this group of guys?
I can see the writing on the wall...
You agree to have sex with this guy... He has his way with you. He dawgs you. And then he tells his friends about you and every little thing you did with him...probably will even lie a little to make himself look really good.
...OR....
You agree to have sex with him and the next thing you know, there's a line of guys waiting to train you.
Why put yourself in that situation??!!! RESPECT YOURSELF!
Forget about boys....keep your head in the books. You'll have time when you get older to play with boys.
2007-01-12 18:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rayne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no dont do it girl......they want you to say yes so they could just prove that ur e-z.......dont do it even if you like the guy he isnt worth it if they call you a skank and a whore.....go find a nice guy a guy that wont call you a slut and mean it......c'mon you can do better dont go down to their level and give them the satisfaction of even a glance at you show them that ur better than them and u dont care wat they think then just so tehy eat their words get a fine bf...that'll show um...hope that was somewat helpful,,,if it was e-mail me...thank you :)
2007-01-12 19:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Gamerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be classy and keep your class.
You shouldnt have to ask what to do.
Your reputation will be smeared throughout your school and untill you leave.
You will have to deal with that rep.
Please tell him do go screw himself.
Better to have a reputation being a ***** then a ho.
cant live down what people think of you.
Just as long as you respect yourself.
2007-01-12 18:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by davy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the heck out of their lives. They are dirtbags and probably more to call them....They have no respect for themselves and they don`t respect you so I am saying this once make new friends and stay away from these troublesome dogs with no life of their own.
2007-01-12 18:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by Carol H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self-respect is definitely one of the most important things a person could have. It would probably be in your best interest if you didn't associate with those guys at all.
2007-01-12 18:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Jiminy Cricket.
2007-01-12 18:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stress this enough, Shannon!
IF ANY GUY YOU'RE NOT ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH asks you for sex, he's what I'd like to call an immature hormonally driven MORON that can't even control himself.
Don't have sex with him, and don't talk to him or his buddies ever again.
2007-01-12 18:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Joshua 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know yur really not going to listen to anything we have to say, so if you decide to go through with having se, just make sure you have a condomn, you don't want to get a nasty STD , Herpes, Or the AIDS virus! OH ESPECIALLY A BABY!
2007-01-12 18:51:07 · answer #11 · answered by sweet_thang_0432024 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋