do i tell him that i miss him?

Question

this has never happened to me before. he's a very good friend but we flirt sometimes. we've kissed. he told me before that he liked me and i said i like him too but that was a year ago. i don't know if he still feels the same way. we used to always talk to each other but things have changed in the past month. we don't talk as often. i don't contact him because i want him to miss me but he doesn't contact me also. are we both playing games? how will i know? do i tell him that i miss him? i don't want to get hurt :( it's painful as it is. and i don't want him to tell me he misses me just because i said it. how would i know if he means it?

Answer 1

yes! you'll never know unless you ask right. but then again, it's better if he says it first. wait a few days. don't call him. see what he does. if nothing happens, he might just be playing the game with you. if you're good friends, then there's nothing wrong with telling him that you miss him right. do it in a playful way. like a friend missing a friend. in other words...fish!

Answer 2

IF you are "very good friends" like u say (provided that he also thinks the same way, that he treats u as a longtime good friend), it's okay to tell him "I miss you!" in a light-hearted way just as you would to any good friend (?), and see what happens... then after that, cool off and let the guy take the lead. Guys should chase if they really like a girl!!

but if you are not "good friends" to begin with and don't know each other long or well enough, then it's better NOT to say such things.

Answer 3

You played too hard to get. Men don't really lose feelings for any girl they've ever liked, unless they get a different girlfriend. If he's still single ask him out.

Answer 4

dont tell him u miss him but still flirt with him talk with him
do things like u used to.. BUT dont show them any real love untill you get a good clear pic of whats going on
you dont wanna be that girl easy who misses anybody around her so easily do you?

Answer 5

I think you should tell him. You can tell sometimes if he means it when he says it back. If he means it, he probably won't say it back right away. Close to right away, but not right away. Its easier to tell if you tell him in person. If that's possible at all. If he's smiling, and saying it right away, he probably doesn't mean it like you do. Just read him, you can tell. I hope it works out for you. Good luck. :]

Answer 6

when you play with someones emotions its hurting them. everybodys different he is dealing with the past month as best as he can. if signs are there and he didn't hurt you when things wasn't right show him how you really feel

Answer 7

There's a gazillion books on this.... bottom line? If a guy's interested, he will pursue you. Don't call. Let him wait. Make him work for it. He'll appreciate it more. REALLY!

Answer 8

maybe hes just scared to tell u because he feels the same so u should step up and tell him first that way u can get in a realationship!!!!!

Answer 9

go by your gut feeling which is almost always 100 percent right.

Answer 10

if he was your goodfriend then just call him and tell him that you missed him i would do that and ask him to go somewhere just as goodfriends ...goodluck