When I just about show them in everyway that I am intrested. Do they do it to hurt me? I know some of them showed some intrest in me, but why choose over me?
2007-01-12 17:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts me deeply when they do this. I'm one of the nicest guys in the world.
2007-01-12 17:57:48 · update #1
I don't think they do it to hurt you, maybe you're a little too forward.
2007-01-12 18:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello Bakery, The first thing i want to say is that i do not agree at all with what Timbo and Purple have to say. And a lot of ladies adore a nice gent but a gent who acts to nice is generally a warning to a lady that he might be looking for something more than just a night of dining out and a movie. Just try not to be too nice is all, and you will find the right young lady. Good luck sweetheart. Ann
2007-01-12 18:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you show them that you're interested in every way. You may be coming off too strong or being too forward. When a girl feels like a guy is being forward, it's turn off so they don't like that, they'll most likely turn to a guy who is subtle or easier to deal with. I don't think they mean to hurt you, but girls can be mean especially if the guy comes off too much.
Just make sure that when you approach a girl you're not telling her EVERYTHING upfront or you're not putting on the mushy stuff too soon. Don't try to get to know her in one hour. Be forward enough to say, "hey, I think you're great, we should go out sometime. Can I get your number?" But not so forward that you tell her that you think you've met the girl of your dreams before even getting a number.
And maybe you aren't coming off that way at all. Maybe you're just meeting the wrong girls. Don't worry about it so much. It'll happen when you least expect it. Life is too short so have fun and enjoy all the learning experiences you get out of it. Good luck!
2007-01-12 18:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me when I was younger I could go with someone for a few days to a week and they would want to get married right away. It would scare the daylights out of me so I ran like mad. It is possible that you are ready and they are not. Do not change one bit of your niceness because when a true woman comes along she will see your value. Be careful of overwhelming them with attention before they are ready.. Mmm
2007-01-12 18:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you take to long to show them that your interested.
Step up to the plate and don't be shy, how can it get any worse If she's choosing some other guy. Act quicker and let her know, give her a compliment.
Good luck
2007-01-12 18:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by coffeemate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't won't to hurt you, only the true bitc--- would do that. Your probably to nice (but don't change that, someone will appreciate it someday) They feel they can treat you this way and get away with it, therefore they feel better about themselves. they most likely go out with guys that are either not going anywhere in life or treat girls like second class citizens
2007-01-12 18:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by rosebud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, here's the deal. Girls don't care about you being interested. They care about being interested.
They aren't trying to hurt you, they're just trying to be happy. So what you need to do is find a way to make them happy, oaky?
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 18:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Miz Understood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think they do it to hurt you, the problem is that you are a little too nice,try not to be so nice,but when you find the right one you will know trust me.
2007-01-12 18:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by sassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol nice guy always lose to bad guy. Maybe you shoudl try to toughen out a bit
2007-01-12 18:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by timbo_boi15 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you find the right one they will choose you.
2007-01-12 18:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋